Laura

Laura Martin

Expert in the Psychology of Sexuality and Erotic Fulfilment

"Understanding your body is the first step to loving it."

An expert in psychology and sexuality, Laura Martin draws on years of experience to shed light on sexual well-being. From sexual health and dysfunctions to infections and the psychological aspects of desire, she takes on complex topics to give clear, accessible advice. Her aim is to make sexual health information easy to understand so everyone can enjoy a satisfying sex life.

Favourite toy: Kegel balls – to tone up my pelvic floor muscles!

Some Interesting Facts About Kissing
Some Interesting Facts About Kissing
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What's in a kiss? Discover some fascinating facts about this classic gesture of love.

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Blue Monday: Our Sexy Advice for Beating the Winter Doldrums
Blue Monday: Our Sexy Advice for Beating the Winter Doldrums
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Liven up the most depressing day of the year with a few of our erotic tips!

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How to Boost Your Libido: 10 Tips for Women
How to Boost Your Libido: 10 Tips for Women
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Is your sex drive on a downswing? Don’t panic! Increase your libido thanks to our 10 tips for reigniting your desire.

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How to Choose the Right Lubricant
How to Choose the Right Lubricant
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Discover the many types of lube on the market and choose the one that suits you best. Let us guide you through the key factors to take into account when buying a bottle of lube.
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How to Store Your Sex Toys
How to Store Your Sex Toys
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Discover the most efficient and practical ways to store your sex toys to keep them in tip top shape. Enjoy your sex toys more than ever before thanks to our storage tips.
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How to Experiment With Polyamory With No Regrets
How to Experiment With Polyamory With No Regrets
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Looking to enjoy a polyamorous relationship with your partner? Discover how to enjoy an open relationship without regrets thanks to our expert advice!

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How to Communicate With Your Partner in Bed
How to Communicate With Your Partner in Bed
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Communication is a key element of a satisfying sex life, but it's not always easy to express your desires. Here are all the tips and tricks you need to better communicate with your partner in bed.

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How to Use a Speculum
How to Use a Speculum
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Unlock the secrets of perfect speculum usage with our comprehensive guide! From technique to precision, become a pro in no time. Ready to dive in?
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Online Infidelity: My Partner Is Cheating On Me in Cyberspace!
Online Infidelity: My Partner Is Cheating On Me in Cyberspace!
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Is your partner cheating in cyberspace? Uncover the reality of online infidelity through a personal account of betrayal. Explore the emotions, warning signs, and coping strategies to navigate this complex issue.

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How To Choose a Sadomasochism Toy
How To Choose a Sadomasochism Toy
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Explore the world of sadomasochism with our comprehensive buyer’s guide! Choose the best SM toy for you and your partner and enjoy a safe and intense experience.
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How To Explore Sadomasochism Safely: A Beginner’s Guide to Your First Session
How To Explore Sadomasochism Safely: A Beginner’s Guide to Your First Session
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Dare to explore the wild world of sadomasochism with your partner! Discover our essential advice to enjoy the perfect first SM session in total safety.
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The DOs and DON’Ts of Contraception
The DOs and DON’Ts of Contraception
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Don’t take any chances with your contraception! Discover the mistakes to avoid to make sure you’re always protected and ready to have fun.

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How To Recycle Your Sex Toys
How To Recycle Your Sex Toys
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Discover our environmentally friendly tips and tricks to recycle your sex toys, saving them from the landfill. Make Mother Earth proud!
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Love Bites: The Tantalising Foods That Boost Your Bedroom Buzz!
Love Bites: The Tantalising Foods That Boost Your Bedroom Buzz!
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Explore a brand new world of sensual pleasures with our ultimate guide on aphrodisiac foods. Discover these exciting ingredients that will stimulate your libido.

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How to Sterilise Your Sex Toys
How to Sterilise Your Sex Toys
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Keep your precious playthings in perfect condition thanks to our tips and tricks for sterilising your toys. You’ll keep them clean and hygienic for years to come!
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What Really Happens to Your Body During an Orgasm?
What Really Happens to Your Body During an Orgasm?
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Discover the intimate mysteries of the ultimate pleasure. Learn what exactly happens in your body physically and psychologically during climax.

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The Deep Connection Between Love and Lust
The Deep Connection Between Love and Lust
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Explore the deep connection between pleasure and emotions, especially the complex relationship between love and lust. Discover what fuels our most intense romantic feelings.

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Menopause/Andropause: Reigniting the Spark in Your 50s (And Beyond)
Menopause/Andropause: Reigniting the Spark in Your 50s (And Beyond)
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Having a sex life past 50 years old? It’s absolutely possible with our best tips for revving up your sex life past menopause or andropause. Enjoy your new body!

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How to Get over a Sexual Slump
How to Get over a Sexual Slump
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How can you beat a sexual slump? Dive into our latest blog article to discover why you are experiencing a bedroom blip and how sex toys can help you get your groove back. Pleasure can be yours again!

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How To Do a Breast Self-Exam
How To Do a Breast Self-Exam
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Breast Cancer Awareness Month is here! Read our how-to guide to perform a breast self-exam, which will help you detect early signs of breast cancer. You may just save your own life.
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Attracted to Intellect? Exploring the World of Sapiosexuality
Attracted to Intellect? Exploring the World of Sapiosexuality
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Ever been enticed more by thoughts than looks? Discover sapiosexuality, where brainpower reigns supreme in romance. Discover the secret to forging deep intellectual connections.

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Depression and Desire: When the Mind Douses the Flames
Depression and Desire: When the Mind Douses the Flames
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How does depression affect your sex life? Dive into our revealing guide to the link between desire and depression to find the best ways to keep up a healthy sex life.

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Anorgasmia Uncovered
Anorgasmia Uncovered
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Struggling with reaching the big O? Dive deep into anorgasmia - what it is, its causes, and how to navigate it. From self-exploration to the magic of sex toys, unlock the secrets to satisfaction.

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Sexual Dreams: Unravelling the Mystery
Sexual Dreams: Unravelling the Mystery
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Ever woken up from a steamy dream and wondered what it all means? Dive deep into the world of erotic dreams - from their biological origins to their transformative journey through life's stages.

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Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire
Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire
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Dive into the world of desire! Discover how understanding spontaneous and responsive desire can transform your intimacy and sexual experiences. Uncover the secrets to a more fulfilling love life.

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Sleep Tight to Love Right: The Important Connection Between Sleep and Your Sex Life
Sleep Tight to Love Right: The Important Connection Between Sleep and Your Sex Life
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Unlock the secrets of sleep for a sizzling sex life! Dive into our latest article to explore how better sleep can spice up your intimacy.

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How to Choose the Perfect Sex Toy for Menopause
How to Choose the Perfect Sex Toy for Menopause
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Embark on a journey of intimate rediscovery with our menopause sex toy buyer's guide. Find the perfect toy to celebrate your femininity and enhance your well-being during menopause.
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How to Discover Your Love Language
How to Discover Your Love Language
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Unlock the secrets of the five love languages! Dive into our insightful guide to discover how understanding love languages can transform your relationships and foster deeper emotional connections.

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Understanding and Overcoming Sexual Addiction
Understanding and Overcoming Sexual Addiction
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Dive into our insightful article on sexual addiction. Uncover its hidden facets, from deep-rooted causes to daily impacts, and learn about the role of sex toys in managing this challenging condition.

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Abstinence Before Marriage: A Fresh Take on an Age-Old Decision
Abstinence Before Marriage: A Fresh Take on an Age-Old Decision
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Dive into the multifaceted world of abstinence before marriage. Discover its emotional and practical benefits, the challenges faced, and how sex toys play a crucial role in a balanced lifestyle.

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Bridging the Orgasm Gap: Understanding and Closing the Pleasure Divide
Bridging the Orgasm Gap: Understanding and Closing the Pleasure Divide
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Unlock the secrets of the orgasm gap! Dive into our guide on enhancing pleasure, communication, and intimacy in your relationship. Discover how to bridge the gap for a fulfilling sexual experience.

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Sexsomnia: Exploring the Enigma of Sleep’s Intimate Intruder
Sexsomnia: Exploring the Enigma of Sleep’s Intimate Intruder
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Unveil the mystery of sexsomnia. Read on to understand this rare sleep disorder's impact on relationships. Discover symptoms, causes, and how you can navigate the challenge together.

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Have I Been Ghosted? The Signs That They’ve Disappeared and How to React
Have I Been Ghosted? The Signs That They’ve Disappeared and How to React
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Been ghosted? Dive into our insightful guide on spotting ghosting signs, handling it with grace, and thriving in your dating journey. Discover how to turn a setback into a step forward in love!

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The ABCs of Sexual Consent: Enhancing Intimacy With Mutual Understanding
The ABCs of Sexual Consent: Enhancing Intimacy With Mutual Understanding
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Dive into the essentials of sexual consent! We'll help you navigate your sexual relationships with respect and mutual understanding. Discover how clear agreement fosters healthier sex.

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Age Gaps: More Than Just a Number?
Age Gaps: More Than Just a Number?
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Ever wondered how much age difference is too much in love? We delve into the heart of age-gap relationships, exploring their unique challenges. Discover if your love will withstand the test of time!

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Do I Owe My Partner Sex?: How to Overcome the Feeling of Sexual Obligation
Do I Owe My Partner Sex?: How to Overcome the Feeling of Sexual Obligation
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Uncover the truth about feeling like you 'owe' your partner sex. Dive into our guide for empowering insights on respect, consent, and true intimacy. Break free from invisible pressures today!

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Can Love Survive Cheating? 10 Essential Tips for Overcoming the Ordeal
Can Love Survive Cheating? 10 Essential Tips for Overcoming the Ordeal
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When a couple is faced with infidelity, all is not lost. Read our 10 essential tips for saving your relationship after your partner has cheated on you.

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What Is a Sex Therapist?
What Is a Sex Therapist?
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Explore the fascinating world of sex therapy and learn how a sex therapist can change your sex life. Our guide to finding the right therapist for you.

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Have I Been Lovebombed? How to Spot the Red Flags
Have I Been Lovebombed? How to Spot the Red Flags
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Have you been lovebombed? Discover all of the signs of being manipulated by your partner with excessive love and affection. Learn how to protect yourself!

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What Is Ethical Porn?
What Is Ethical Porn?
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Dive into the world of ethical porn with the LOVE Team. Discover a more respectful, inclusive way to enjoy adult content that feels good and does good.

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The 5 Ways Technology Has Changed Our Sex Lives
The 5 Ways Technology Has Changed Our Sex Lives
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Dive into the digital transformation of intimacy: From the rise of dating apps to the intrigue of AI, we explore the way that tech has changed the way we love and connect.

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A Primer on Your Sex Drive
A Primer on Your Sex Drive
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Unleash the secrets of your sex drive! From the rush of youth to the wisdom of age, learn how to explore, manage, and celebrate your sexual desires at every stage of life.

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How to Get over Your Physical Hang-Ups During Sex
How to Get over Your Physical Hang-Ups During Sex
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Discover our secrets to building body confidence and enjoying a more satisfying sex life. Get over your hang-ups and start enjoying partner play!

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Am I Asexual?
Am I Asexual?
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Unravel the complexities of asexuality, from its many expressions to its impact on well-being. Join us in celebrating the diverse spectrum of human connections and fostering a more inclusive world.

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I Love My Partner but Don’t Want to Sleep With Them
I Love My Partner but Don’t Want to Sleep With Them
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Struggling with waning desire in your relationship? Our guide offers insights and practical tips to rekindle passion, improve communication, and deepen your intimate connection.

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What Is the 80-20 Theory?
What Is the 80-20 Theory?
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Unleash the power of the 80/20 theory in your romantic relationship! Learn how to identify the key actions that fuel satisfaction and explore intimacy-boosting tips for a stronger, happier bond.

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Can a One-Night Stand Turn Into Something Serious?
Can a One-Night Stand Turn Into Something Serious?
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Uncover the potential of one-night stands to transform into lasting love. Our expert guide offers tips on communication, building trust, and overcoming obstacles.

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Is It a Good Idea to Sleep With Your Best Friend?
Is It a Good Idea to Sleep With Your Best Friend?
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Thinking of taking your friendship to the next level? Discover the benefits and risks of sleeping with your best friend, and learn how to make a thoughtful decision that preserves your valuable bond.

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Debunking the Myths About Sex and Marriage
Debunking the Myths About Sex and Marriage
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Unravel the truth about sex and marriage! Debunk popular myths and explore practical tips to maintain passion, overcome challenges, and enhance intimacy in your relationship.

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My Partner Is Going On Vacation…Without Me!
My Partner Is Going On Vacation…Without Me!
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Uncover the secrets to navigating your partner's holiday without you, as we explore trust-building, self-discovery, and maintaining intimacy. Turn their absence opportunity for your relationship!

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Do I Smell Bad… Down There?
Do I Smell Bad… Down There?
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Feeling unsure about intimate odours? Our latest article explores what's normal, signs to look out for, and expert tips for daily freshness. Embrace confidence and understanding!

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Why Can’t I Get Wet?
Why Can’t I Get Wet?
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From everyone on the LOVE Team, we hope that this article has given you the answers that you’ve been looking for to improve your comfort and pleasure during sex.

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The Condom Broke…Now What?
The Condom Broke…Now What?
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Oh no, the condom broke! Don't panic. Our latest guide walks you through what to do next, from emergency contraception to STI checks. Stay safe and informed.

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Can I Get Pregnant From Precum?
Can I Get Pregnant From Precum?
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Ever wondered if precum can lead to pregnancy? We've got answers! Learn about the risks, debunk myths, and find tips for worry-free sex.

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What is World Sexual Health Day?
What is World Sexual Health Day?
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Unlock the secrets to a fulfilling sex life! Celebrate World Sexual Health Day with us as we bust myths and share tips for open communication, consent, and self-discovery.

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Does My Partner Still Love Me?
Does My Partner Still Love Me?
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Feeling a chill in your relationship? Discover the telltale signs that your partner might be falling out of love, the reasons behind their distance, and expert tips to reignite that spark.

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Top 10 Sexy Role-Play Ideas to Try out Tonight
Top 10 Sexy Role-Play Ideas to Try out Tonight
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Ready to spark some excitement? Explore 10 thrilling role-play ideas designed to rekindle the flame and bring you closer to your partner. From sexy to adventurous, you'll add spice to your sex play!

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How to Get Your Sex Life Back After a Divorce
How to Get Your Sex Life Back After a Divorce
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Struggling to pep up your sex life post-divorce? You're not alone. Here's how to reconnect with your body, overcome fears, and explore new pleasures at your own rhythm.

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Sleeping in Different Beds: Normal or a Sign of Trouble Ahead?
Sleeping in Different Beds: Normal or a Sign of Trouble Ahead?
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Considering separate beds? You're not alone. Many couples find improved sleep, reduced tension, and even enhanced intimacy. Keep reading for all of our tips to keep your connection strong.

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Why Is My Pet Watching Me Have Sex?
Why Is My Pet Watching Me Have Sex?
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Ever felt your pet's eyes on you during intimate moments? Discover why they do it and learn practical tips to maintain your privacy while keeping your pet happy and well-adjusted.

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Cheating Fantasies: What Do They Really Mean?
Cheating Fantasies: What Do They Really Mean?
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Ever wondered why you're having those cheating fantasies? Read our latest article to understand their meaning and learn how to explore these thoughts in a healthy way to strengthen your relationship.

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Why Black Friday Is the Sexiest Day of the Year
Why Black Friday Is the Sexiest Day of the Year
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Why Black Friday is the Sexiest Day of the Year! Explore our top reasons why this shopping extravaganza is the perfect time to spice up your love life.

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How to Get Over a Breakup: Our Readers’ Best Tips!
How to Get Over a Breakup: Our Readers’ Best Tips!
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Getting over a breakup may seem like an impossible task, but there are many ways to feel better. The LOVE Team shares the top tips we’ve received from our beloved readers, who have been there before!

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I’ve Become the Target of Revenge Porn – What Can I Do?
I’ve Become the Target of Revenge Porn – What Can I Do?
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Struggling with revenge porn? You're not alone. Learn what UK law says, the steps to take, and how to regain control. Help is just a click away.

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Make-up and Break-up Sex: Good Idea or Bad Idea?
Make-up and Break-up Sex: Good Idea or Bad Idea?
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Ever wondered if make-up or break-up sex is a good idea? We've got the lowdown on why these encounters can be so intense, and when they might be more trouble than they're worth.

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Is It a Rebound Relationship or Is It for Real?
Is It a Rebound Relationship or Is It for Real?
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Struggling to tell if your new romance is the real deal or just a rebound? Check out our latest blog post for the telltale signs and insights on navigating those post-breakup feelings.

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Breeding Kink: Why the Risk of Falling Pregnant Is Sexy for Some
Breeding Kink: Why the Risk of Falling Pregnant Is Sexy for Some
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Ever wondered why some people are turned on by the risk of pregnancy during sex? Welcome to the world of breeding kinks and discover how to explore them safely with your partner.

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Does Ovulation Make You Hornier?
Does Ovulation Make You Hornier?
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Explore how ovulation impacts your libido, the science behind hormonal changes, and tips to take advantage of the monthly perk.

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Our 10 Best Sexual Resolutions for a Year Full of Pleasure – Whether You’re Single or Attached!
Our 10 Best Sexual Resolutions for a Year Full of Pleasure – Whether You’re Single or Attached!
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Kick off 2025 with 10 exciting sexual resolutions to reignite passion, explore new pleasures, and deepen intimacy—whether you're single or in a relationship. Let the fun begin!

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Slept with a Mate? Here's What to Do Next
Slept with a Mate? Here's What to Do Next
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Hooked up with a mate and feeling unsure? From keeping things platonic to exploring something new, find out how to handle the morning after with confidence.

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Crying After Sex – Why It's Perfectly Normal
Crying After Sex – Why It's Perfectly Normal
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Ever cried after sex or an orgasm? You’re not alone! Explore the surprising reasons behind those post-climax tears and why they’re nothing to worry about.

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Relationship Red Flags: How to Spot a Toxic Partner from Day One
Relationship Red Flags: How to Spot a Toxic Partner from Day One
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New relationship? Don't ignore the warning signs. From love bombing to controlling behaviour, here are the biggest red flags to watch out for before it’s too late.

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Slept with a Colleague? Here’s How to Keep It from Becoming Office Drama
Slept with a Colleague? Here’s How to Keep It from Becoming Office Drama
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Slept with a colleague? Now what? Whether it was a one-time thing or the start of something real, here’s how to handle the aftermath and keep your work life drama-free.

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Facials: Why Does He Like to Finish on My Face?
Facials: Why Does He Like to Finish on My Face?
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Explore the appeal of facial ejaculation—why some men enjoy it, the psychology behind the fetish, and how to navigate it with your partner.

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Living Your Best Life with Endometriosis
Living Your Best Life with Endometriosis
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Endometriosis is more than just painful periods. Learn about its symptoms, causes, and treatment options—plus tips for managing daily life with this chronic condition.

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Our Top 5 Favourite Series That Deal With Sex and Kinks In an Open-Minded Way
Our Top 5 Favourite Series That Deal With Sex and Kinks In an Open-Minded Way
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5 must-watch series that talk freely and openly about sex, kinks and fantasies. Get ready to be hooked by these amusing, emotional and diverse shows!

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Find Out What Gets You Hot Under the Covers: Take Our Quiz to Discover Your Kink!
Find Out What Gets You Hot Under the Covers: Take Our Quiz to Discover Your Kink!
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Is there something about your sexual preferences that you just can’t quite put your finger on? This easy quiz might just have the answer you're looking for, helping you change the way you look at your own pleasure.

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Disability and Desire: Thinking Differently About Sexuality
Disability and Desire: Thinking Differently About Sexuality
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Sex as a disabled person is a subject that doesn’t get talked about enough. Let’s put a spotlight on the right to pleasure, shared intimacy and concrete solutions for everybody, regardless of your body.

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How to Choose a MTF (Male to Female) Transgender Accessory
How to Choose a MTF (Male to Female) Transgender Accessory
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Would you like to match your body with your identity? Take a look at our MTF guide and find the perfect accessories to unveil your curves and live your femininity to the fullest.
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How to choose a FTM (female to male) transgender accessory
How to choose a FTM (female to male) transgender accessory
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Affirm your style and identity with our FTM accessories designed specially for you. The LOVE Team is here to help find the right option to change your day to day life.
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How to Use a Stand to Pee (STP)
How to Use a Stand to Pee (STP)
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Confidently peeing whilst standing is possible! Take a look at our guide to help you choose, use and look after your STP, whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned pro.
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Somnophilia: When Desire Gatecrashes Sleep
Somnophilia: When Desire Gatecrashes Sleep
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Somewhere between taboo fantasies and erotic practices lies the intriguing somnophilia. Find out why it attracts people, the importance of consent and tips on safe practice.

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How to Wear MTF Gender-Affirming Prosthetics
How to Wear MTF Gender-Affirming Prosthetics
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Learn how to wear and care for MTF gender-affirming prosthetics, from gaffs to faux breasts and beyond, with practical advice for comfort, confidence and daily ease.
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Can Orgasms Relieve a Migraine?
Can Orgasms Relieve a Migraine?
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Does having an orgasm help stop migraines? From the effect of hormones and scientific studies to psychological wellbeing, find out how pleasure can affect pain.

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How to Wear FTM Gender-Affirming Prosthetics
How to Wear FTM Gender-Affirming Prosthetics
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Explore our guide to FTM prosthetics: from foam packers to realistic penis pants, learn how to wear, care for and choose the option that makes you feel confident and comfortable.
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Dry Humping, Pure Fantasy or an Instinctive Form of Pleasure?
Dry Humping, Pure Fantasy or an Instinctive Form of Pleasure?
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Dry humping is gaining traction in the world of sex. Find out why this instinctive movement, often discovered early on, is such a great addition to your sex life, whether solo or with a partner.

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