How to Wear FTM Gender-Affirming Prosthetics

Gender-affirming FTM prosthetics are mainly (but not only) phallic-shaped accessories designed to create the look of a realistic penis. They can mimic a natural penis for trans men, or be used by cis men who want to change the appearance or size of their own. Whatever the motivation, these devices help boost confidence for anyone who wants to live with a penis, or enhance the one they were born with. They can also serve as a way to get used to that experience before considering surgery. You can test what size feels right and, depending on the model, try out certain natural functions of a penis: using a Stand to Pee to urinate while standing for example, or having penetrative sex with realistic penis pants.

In this how-to guide, the LOVE Team is going to run through the different types of prosthetics available to give you clear advice if you’re just starting out, so you can enjoy a comfortable experience specially tailored to your needs.

Using a shell couldn’t be easier. Just slip your foam packer into snug-fitting underwear so it stays put. Some people go for briefs with a built-in pocket or a support harness designed specifically for this type of shell. It’s all down to personal comfort, so make sure to try different models until you find what feels right for you.

One of the best things about foam packers is how simple they are to clean. After each wear, simply wash the shell with warm water and mild soap, then leave to air dry so the foam lasts longer. As for storage, there’s nothing special required, just keep it in the same drawer as your everyday underwear, so it’s always ready when you are.

The idea is much the same as with a foam packer: just slip your packer into your underwear. Because classic packers can be a little trickier to position, many people prefer to wear briefs with a special pocket or a harness that will keep the item more secure and less prone to shifting around down there.

Packers are made from silicone, which is durable but needs proper care. After each use, wash the prosthetic with warm water and a mild soap, then let it air dry completely. If you plan on sharing it with a partner, you might want to sterilise it for added safety. Store your packer somewhere dry, away from sunlight and dust. A small storage pouch is ideal to keep it clean and extend its lifespan.

Wearing fake penis briefs is as easy as pulling on a normal pair of pants. The silicone will stretch to fit most body types. Some designs feature a second, inward-facing dildo so the wearer can also enjoy penetrative sensations during penetration. The first few goes might take some adjustment, so we suggest that you use your hands to guide the motion until the thrusting movements feels natural. Realistic penis pants can also be worn solo for a masturbation session , giving you a distinctly masculine-feeling experience.

As with any silicone prosthetic, cleaning is essential. Wash your pants thoroughly with warm water and a mild soap, paying particular attention to the dildo if you’ve been using them to penetrate a partner. Sterilising is strongly recommended, and becomes non-negotiable if you’re using them for both vaginal and anal play. Let them air dry fully before tucking them away somewhere clean and dry. Keep them separate from other silicone toys to avoid damaging the material.

Getting the hang of an STP can take a bit of practice. Positioning it and mastering the flow isn’t always second nature right away, so a little patience is part of the process. Rather than cramming all the details here, we’ve put together a special how-to guide that walks you through everything step by step, from using your STP confidently to keeping it clean. You can find it here: How to Use a Stand to Pee (STP).

You can pull on your male chest like a vest, although the snug fit can make putting it on (and especially taking it off) a little tricky. Dusting a fine layer of talc on your skin beforehand will help the silicone glide more easily and cut down on any uncomfortable friction. It will also reduce irritation during longer wear. Even though the silicone feels soft and comfortable, it’s best to take the chest off regularly so your skin can breathe and to give it a proper clean.

Cleaning is simple: wash with warm water and a mild soap. Avoid pairing it with very dark clothing (like denim or heavily dyed fabrics), which can leave stains on the silicone. If stains do appear, a special cleaning cream for silicone and TPE can help. For storage, a safe, protected space is fine, but placing it on a tailor’s mannequin will help preserve the shape over time.

We hope this guide will help you enjoy a positive first experience with your FTM accessory. Whether your goal is easing dysphoria, exploring new sensations or simply enhancing what you already have, these prosthetics can bring you closer to feeling at ease in your own body. If you’d like advice that’s tailored especially to you, the LOVE Team is always here to help.