Louise Paitel

Reconnecting with your sexuality after sexual violence can be a complex journey, but it is possible. Louise Paitel explains how trauma can affect intimacy and offers guidance for moving towards a sex life that feels safer, freer and more on your own terms.

Orgasm does not always require genital stimulation. Breasts, neck, exercise, sleep and imagination can all play a part. Psychologist and sexologist Louise Paitel explores the different ways the body and brain can reach orgasm.

Sex robots are no longer just science fiction. Discover what current research says about their real-world uses, psychological impact, potential benefits and the ethical questions surrounding this rapidly evolving technology.

There’s no doubt that smartphones are encroaching on our intimate lives. Louise Paitel, our resident sexologist, analyses their impact on relationships, emotional connection and sexuality.

What if sometimes your body is just going through the motions? Thanks to Louise Paitel, find out the difference between mindful and automatic orgasms.

How does pleasure arise and why does it vary from person to person? Louise Paitel delves into the heart of human sexual response and highlights the links between the brain, hormones and intimate experiences

Kinks, BDSM, fetishism: marginal practices or ordinary sexualities? Our favourite sexologist Louise Paitel takes stock of consent, safety, well-being and essential clinical guidelines.

The Sensate Focus is a well-known sex therapy technique that helps couples to reignite intimacy and trust via a few simple exercises. Find out how it can improve your relationship here.

Complexes, norms and self-image profoundly influence desire and pleasure. Our sexologist Louise Paitel reveals how to reconcile body and sexuality in order to rediscover fulfilment.

Want to know how sexually satisfied you really are? In this article, find out the individual, emotional and relational keys that influence your intimate well-being.

Masturbation is so much more than a simple intimate practice: it teaches you about pleasure, your body, and sexual freedom. In this article, find out just how healthy masturbating can be.

When used with a partner, male sex toys enhance shared pleasure, build emotional closeness, and help couples break taboos for a more fulfilling, balanced sex life.

Our favourite sexologist, Louise Paitel, asks: can you become addicted to sex toys? A revealing read on pleasure, limits, and mindful sexual wellbeing.

After the arrival of a child, sexuality often changes. Less desire, fatigue, bodily changes... This article will help you understand such changes and rethink intimacy without pressure.

Sex during pregnancy is often a source of uncertainty and misconceptions. Louise Paitel, psychologist and sexologist, helps you better understand how intimacy changes within relationships.

Are you experiencing discomfort or pain during sex? Our latest article explores the common causes of penis pain and offers practical solutions to help you improve your sexual well-being.

Does love yet a lack of desire spell the end of a relationship?  Louise Paitel explores this topic with finesse and nuance, to give us essential insight on something that many couples worry about.

Are you having performance issues? Learn the 5 reasons why you might be experiencing erection issues and what to do.

Louise Paitel explores the dynamics of infidelity, its impact on couples, and the steps needed to overcome crisis and consider the possibility of rebuilding the relationship.

A high libido does not necessarily mean sex addiction. Discover the signs of compulsive sexual behaviour disorder, its causes and the treatment options available. 

Has vaginismus impacted you personally? Or do you just want to learn more about this uniquely feminine condition? Read our detailed guide to living with vaginismus, so you can take back the reins of your sex life!

Often relegated to the background, foreplay is nevertheless central to desire, pleasure and intimacy. Louise Paitel explores its essential role in a couple's sexual balance and satisfaction.

Can you love more than one person at a time? Does opening up a relationship mean something is wrong? Louise Paitel answers these questions and explores the different ways consensual non-monogamy can work.

For a long time, we believed there were two entirely separate orgasms, one clitoral and one vaginal. Louise Paitel looks back at the history of this stubborn myth and explains why science has now moved beyond it.

Want to last longer in bed? Check out our tips for delaying your orgasm to take charge of your sexual game. Your partner will thank you!

Let us treat you to an unforgettable climax! Our tips for exploring your body, communicating with your partner, using sex toys, and enjoying new erotic activities.

Curious about squirting? We break down the science, the myths and the experiences behind female fluid release, with expert insight and real talk.

Discover the secrets of the P-spot. From anatomy and techniques to toys and tips, explore how prostate stimulation can transform pleasure and broaden sexual well-being.

The perineum is so much more than a muscle: it’s the centre for feeling, pleasure, and posture. From rehabilitation to sensuality, the LOVE Team shares their top tips for pelvic floor care.