Louise Paitel

Louise Paitel

Information on leading a free, responsible and inclusive sex life

“Fully owning your sexuality means giving yourself permission to feel, explore and enjoy, while always respecting your own desires and those of your partner.”

Louise Paitel is a clinical psychologist with a background in cognitive behavioural therapy. She's also a licensed sex therapist and a university researcher. She’s passionate about making sex talk smarter, kinder and more open, taking an ethical and scientic approach that's based on real-world experience. Whether she’s in a therapy session or digging into the latest research, Louise explores how relationships work and how tech is reshaping our intimate lives. For her, sexuality is all about freedom, meaning the freedom to be yourself, to experiment, to explore, but always safely, and always with respect.

Sex Dolls: Between Fantasy, Company and Therapy
Sex Dolls: Between Fantasy, Company and Therapy
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Louise Paitel, our resident sexologist explores the fascinating universe of sex dolls: from innovation to preconceived notions, with a nuanced outlook ready to switch up everything you think you know

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Using Male Sex Toys as a Couple: A Revolution for Masculine Pleasure
Using Male Sex Toys as a Couple: A Revolution for Masculine Pleasure
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When used with a partner, male sex toys enhance shared pleasure, build emotional closeness, and help couples break taboos for a more fulfilling, balanced sex life.

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Is it Possible to be Addicted to Sex Toys?
Is it Possible to be Addicted to Sex Toys?
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Our favourite sexologist, Louise Paitel, asks: can you become addicted to sex toys? A revealing read on pleasure, limits, and mindful sexual wellbeing.

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Why Does My Penis Hurt When I Have Sex?
Why Does My Penis Hurt When I Have Sex?
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Are you experiencing discomfort or pain during sex? Our latest article explores the common causes of penis pain and offers practical solutions to help you improve your sexual well-being.

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Vaginismus: When Sex Hurts
Vaginismus: When Sex Hurts
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Has vaginismus impacted you personally? Or do you just want to learn more about this uniquely feminine condition? Read our detailed guide to living with vaginismus, so you can take back the reins of your sex life!

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How to Delay Ejaculation and Last Longer in Bed
How to Delay Ejaculation and Last Longer in Bed
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Want to last longer in bed? Check out our tips for delaying your orgasm to take charge of your sexual game. Your partner will thank you!

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Our Tips for Achieving an Easy Orgasm
Our Tips for Achieving an Easy Orgasm
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Let us treat you to an unforgettable climax! Our tips for exploring your body, communicating with your partner, using sex toys, and enjoying new erotic activities.

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Everything You Need to Know About Squirting!
Everything You Need to Know About Squirting!
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Curious about squirting? We break down the science, the myths and the experiences behind female fluid release, with expert insight and real talk.

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Prostate Orgasm: The Ultimate Guide for Understanding and Exploring Your P-Spot
Prostate Orgasm: The Ultimate Guide for Understanding and Exploring Your P-Spot
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Discover the secrets of the P-spot. From anatomy and techniques to toys and tips, explore how prostate stimulation can transform pleasure and broaden sexual well-being.

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