Well, there is also a male erogenous zone that gives men explosive climaxes that feel just like a female orgasm: the prostate gland, also known as the P-spot!
So, what is the prostate?
But the prostate is also an erogenous zone that can be stimulated by perineal massage or anal penetration!
Cool, but why does it give me pleasure?
Think again - the prostate has a number of nerve endings, so stimulating it sparks intense pleasure that feels completely different from a regular orgasm. The prostate orgasm is an internal, powerful and deep climax caused by micro-contractions triggered by the vibrations of the muscles in the pelvic floor. Many people believe that male pleasure is all about the penis and ejaculation. But it's not - it's all about getting to know your own body. As a bonus, stimulating the prostate can help prevent the health issues mentioned above.
Can heterosexual men stimulate their prostate?
How do you go about it?
- You can use your fingers, your partner's fingers or a suitable sex toy.
- Clean your rectum and wash your hands well (don't forget to cut your nails to prevent tearing).
- Get relaxed beforehand with kissing, cuddles, games or massages.
- Use as much lube as necessary.
Once you're ready, start to gently penetrate your rectum with a finger or toy until you feel a soft bump - bingo, you've reached the prostate! Once you've found it, you can massage it gently with your fingers or with a toy to dial up the pleasure. It is extremely important to take your time to get to know your body and what you like. It is normal for a man to lose his erection, or not to cum or ejaculate. Work on your prostate massage and orgasm skills over time. The important thing is to have fun!
More experienced men may prefer to use a vibrating prostate massager for even stronger sensations !
The perineum is the area halfway between the testicles and the anus. However, it takes a lot of stimulation during the massage to get through the skin and muscles to the prostate. The sensations will not be as strong as during anal penetration, but this method can be a good starting point for discovering prostate pleasure.