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BDSM Sex Toys
Commonly known as BDSM, this sexual practice brings together the exciting worlds of bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism. Two willing partners establish an intimate contract to practice this exciting activity: one partner acts the role as the sub, and the other the role of the Dom. Pain, humiliation, and fantasy are put into play during a steamy BDSM session. LOVEANDVIBES carries just the right sex toys for the game!
Why we love BDSM…and how to get started!
Novices to the world of BDSM may wonder what all of the fuss is about. However, confirmed S&M experts can attest that the practice offers many steamy benefits.
Experience an exciting kind of pain
BDSM aficionados will tell you that they absolutely love to feel the pain they experience during a bondage session. For example, a simple spanking will make you tremble as you experience first-hand the pleasurable taboo of total domination by your partner.
Let yourself go completely
Treating yourself to a BDSM session is the perfect way of escaping your stressful daily routine. If you’re tired of always having to control every little aspect of your daily life, being the sub in a BDSM dynamic will be the perfect antidote. You’ll hand over all control to your partner…all you’ll have to do is experience is the pleasure!
Gain respect for your partner
When your lover is in the role of the dominant partner, you’ll see them in a totally different way. Your partner will be the one in control, but will also have to respect your limits and desires. That way, you’ll experience a totally unforgettable session, which will strengthen the intimate bond that you already share.
The golden rules of BDSM partner play
Experimenting with BDSM requires that certain rules be established so that both partners thoroughly enjoy the experience.
TRUST YOUR PARTNER
Trust is an essential element for any BDSM encounter. Both partners must have total and utter confidence in the other for the game to go well. If each lover gives their entire trust over to their other half, the bondage session will go off without a hitch, and pleasure will be on the menu.
OPEN YOUR MIND
For total enjoyment, it is important that both partners are in absolute agreement with the evening’s arousing activities. Define your own personal boundaries with your lover and decide what is on or off the table before shedding your clothing. This is an absolutely essential rule to make the sub partner feel totally comfortable under the Dom’s control.
CHOOSE A SAFE WORD
It is important to find a safe word that the sub can cry out if ever they feel uncomfortable in the heat of the moment. Once the sub says the safe word, the Dom has the obligation to bring all activities to an immediate halt. In the context of BDSM play, many subs like to cry out the word “no” for fun, which means that the couple must choose another word to take a break. A couple’s safe word must absolutely be respected in all conditions and situations.
The essential LOVE AND VIBES BDSM sex toys
The LOVE AND VIBES sex shop offers a wide variety of BDSM sex toys to spice up your intimate soirées and help you break out of your regular routine.
BDSM BONDAGE KITS
Our bondage kits include several S&M sex toys that let you experience a full bondage experience. These kits make the perfect gift for both novices and experts. Many of our kits include handcuffs, masks, whips, and restraints.
HANDCUFFS
You can put our handcuffs around the sub’s wrists or ankles. You can then attach your sub to the bedpost, a staircase, or any other exciting places. Made with imitation leather, velour, or metal, our handcuffs are beloved by all daring couples.
RESTRAINTS
Our restraining accessories will help you totally tie up your partner so that they can’t move an inch. We carry metal bars, ropes, chairs, or leather straps. By tying down certain parts of your partner’s body, you’ll be able to concentrate on giving them pure erotic pleasure.
COCK RING AND CAGES
BDSM fans love using cock cages to maintain a man’s erection, as a man’s stiff member represents excitement during an erotic encounter. Once imprisoned inside one of our amazing cages, he’ll have to fight against his own arousal, as it will be very painful to have an erection inside of the cage. For even more excitement, we carry a number of vibrating cages, which sensually massage his entire package. Opt for a model with a padlock for even more sinful pleasure!
BALL GAGS
When your partner is wearing a ball gag, they will be unable to say a single word. Your sub will be totally utter your control, and will not be able to get a word in edgewise!
SUBMISSION COLLARS AND LEASHES
You can control your partner’s movements even more easily by making them wear a submission collar, which often come with a leash included. Made of imitation leather, many of our collars also come equipped with metal rings, chains, studs, or even a padlock for total and control mastery of your lover’s movements.
NIPPLE CLAMPS
Place a pair of our nipple clamps over your pointy buds for heavenly mammary pleasure. This very sensitive female erogenous zone loves to be caressed and pinched. Our clamps come in a variety of different shapes and colours, making them the ideal accessory for an intimate massage. We even offer vibrating and electro-stimulation models.
MASKS
Surprise your partner by totally covering their eyes, making them unable to see what you are doing. Your partner will be dying with suspense to know what you plan on doing to their body.
WHIPS AND CROPS
Our selection of whips and crops lets you punish your partner within the parameters that you have established together. You’ll love hearing your partner cry out in ecstasy when you strike them with one of our BDSM sex toys!
BDSM Pleasure Techniques
The expression BDSM comes from 3 distinct words: Bondage, Discipline & Sado-Masochism. Each of these activities will be greatly enhanced by using our sex toys to increase your pleasure.
BONDAGE
Bondage is a BDSM activity which consists in tying up your partner with the help of BDSM accessories so that they cannot move at all. You can enjoy this activity in the context of an intimate relationship. It is absolutely essential that all of your bondage play is totally consensual. Bondage play involves the use of a variety of accessories that limit your lover’s movements: a BDSM bondage kit, handcuffs, BDSM restraints, penis cage, ball gag, ropes, corsets, etc. Anything is possible, and the only limit is your imagination. A number of bondage sex toys exist so that you can fulfil your sauciest fantasies by tying up your partner.
DISCIPLINE
Discipline involves the Dom partner establishing rules that the sub partner must absolutely respect out of fear of being punished. To make their sub respect the rules, a Dom can use a number of different tools for punishment: submission collars and leashes, masks, or even whips and riding crops. Your partner will love the punishment that you dole out!
SADO-MASOCHISM
Sado-masochism, which is commonly known as S&M, is an expression that brings together the two different concepts of sadism and masochism. Sadism can be defined as the pleasure one experiences by making others suffer, while masochism involves experiencing pleasure at one’s own suffering. These two terms come from the Marquis de Sade, who is known for his racy writing. Behaviour control is a key element in S&M play. You’ll love controlling your partner’s behaviour with the help of our nipple clamps or chastity cages. Your partner will absolutely adore the exquisite pain!