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Ease into BDSM
Are you in a relationship and looking to explore bondage, dominance and submission, or even
sadomasochism
? Soft BDSM will add a new dimension to your intimate fun, all whilst allowing you to explore at your own pace.
Numerous couples turn to BDSM as a way to break routine, bring more playfulness to the bedroom and discover new aspects of their sexuality. A few simple games or new scenarios are enough to refresh your sex life.
Contrary to popular belief, BDSM isn’t all about pain. Numerous BDSM practices focus on:
- Pleasure and sensations
- Control and letting go
- Anticipation and playfulness
- Trust between partners
- Discovering new fantasies
Soft BDSM is great as it allows for gradual discovery of the BDSM world, when choosing the practices and accessories suited to beginners.
Choose the Right Accessories for Soft BDSM
There’s no need to invest in complicated accessories if you’re just getting started in the BDSM world. Numerous toys give you the chance to gradually introduce aspects of domination, bondage, sensory play and fetish scenarios into your usual bedroom antics.
BDSM Toy | What is it used for? | How to add to your partner play |
Immobilising your partner’s wrists and ankles to play around with control. | Simply attach your partner’s wrists to the bed or behind their back and to light domination situations. | |
Brushing, grazing and tickling the body as a way to explore sensory play and erotic tickling (knismolagnia). | Slide the feather across the sensitive areas of your partner’s body to create anticipation and intensify sensations. | |
A collection of BDSM accessories in one single kit so you can test out different practices at a reduced price | Try out different accessories as you go along, taking the time to find out what you enjoy the most. | |
Cat or rabbit mask in faux leather | Adding a fetishist/role play dimension to your experience. | Create a scenario in which your partner takes on a new identity or plays the part of a mysterious stranger. |
Consensually spanking your partner during Dom/sub play. | Start by smacking the bum cheeks lightly to discover impact play. |
The goal of soft BDSM is not to create the most intense scenario, but to explore new sensations, new roles and new bonds between partners.
How to Stay Safe When Practicing Soft BDSM
Even if you’re not taking part in the most hardcore BDSM practices, trust, consent and communication are all crucial. Just a few simple precautions can ensure you fully enjoy your experience.
Before any session, take the time with your partner to discuss each other’s limits. A quick conversation in advance should help to avoid any misunderstandings and ensure that everyone is on the same wavelength.
Here are a few essential rules to keep in mind:
- Talk about your desires, fantasies and limits before you get started.
- Define a safeword, so play can be stopped immediately if needed.
- Remain attentive to the reactions and comfort levels of your partner throughout the experience.
- Maintain regular communication throughout to make sure everyone is okay.
After your session, we recommend you also take some time for aftercare. A hug, a discussion, or simply a comforting moment help to extend the experience in an atmosphere of trust and complicity.
