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Spider gag, mouth spreader
What Is a Mouth Spreader?
A mouth spreader is a BDSM accessory, often used during Dom/sub scenarios. Just like a ball gag, it keeps the mouth open and makes talking more difficult.
The main difference, however, between these two accessories, is that the mouth spreader doesn’t block the mouth. The lips are spread wide during use, leaving you and your partner free to explore different BDSM scenarios as you like.
Mouth spreaders can be used to:
- Reinforce Dom/sub dynamics
- Accentuate the feeling of vulnerability for the submissive partner
- Facilitate certain forms of BDSM role play
- Keep the mouth open during intimate practices, so long as it’s a fully consenting environment
What Mouth Spreader Should I Opt for?
Not all mouth spreaders provide the same sensations. The two most common options are the ring gag and the spider gag, each one offering a different experience depending on what you’re after.
Criteria | Ring gag | Spider gag |
Restriction level | Moderate | Higher |
Jaw comfort | More comfortable during prolonged wear | Can tire out the jaw |
Hold | Can move slightly | Very stable once in place |
Adapted to beginners? | Yes, in most cases | Better for users with prior experience |
Visual effect | Discreet and refined | More imposing, popular in BDSM scenes |
Material also plays an important role in user comfort. The part that comes into contact with the mouth can be made from a variety of materials, each with its own advantages.
Material | Comfort level | Intensity | Recommended for |
Silicone | ✅✅✅✅✅ | ✅✅ | Beginners, maximum comfort |
Plastic | ✅✅✅ | ✅✅✅ | Occasional use |
Metal | ✅✅ | ✅✅✅✅ | Experienced users looking for more intense sensations |
LOVE Team tips:
- Silicone: the best choice if this is your first time wearing a mouth spreader, thanks to how supple and comfortable it is.
- Plastic: the perfect compromise between comfort, rigidity and cost.
- Metal: ideal for experienced users looking for something firmer that matches the BDSM aesthetic.
How to Use a Mouth Spreader or Spider Gag Safely
Mouth spreaders limit your ability to talk. Make sure to prepare properly and communicate clearly before you start your fun.
Here are a few essential rules to follow:
- Agree upon a non-verbal safe signal rather than a safeword, so that the submissive partner can interrupt the session whenever necessary
- Never leave a person wearing a mouth spreader unattended
- Avoid wearing a mouth spreader over a prolonged period of time so as not to tire your jaw
- Practice aftercare by offering water, as wearing these accessories can cause dry mouth
- Only use this accessory with someone you trust, and ensure that consent is renewed throughout the whole experience
As with any BDSM practice, respecting boundaries and communicating remain the keys to an enjoyable and safe experience.
