How to Choose the Perfect Anal Sex Toy

Don't forget to always respect your own boundaries, or if you’re with a partner, their boundaries as well. Communication is key when it comes to partner play. Always use a suitable anal lubricant and to follow the instructions in your toy’s user’s manual.

If you want to enjoy the pleasures of anal play with complete peace of mind, you should take a cautious approach. Be gentle, give yourself time to learn and don't rush things. There are tons of models specially designed for beginners. Here's everything you need to know about anal toys for beginners:

• Material and texture: Choose a silicone anal toy to start with. This soft, silky material makes it easier to insert for a more comfortable anal experience.
• Design: A conical shape allows for gradual insertion. This will allow you to get used to the new sensations in a gentle way.
• Diameter: We recommend that you choose a toy with a diameter of no more than 1.00 inch. Above all, don't rush things, as you could injure yourself or experience discomfort. If you’d like, you can increase the size of your anal toy over time, as your level of experience increases.

The LOVE Team recommends that you read our how-to guides before using your new dildo or butt plug. You’ll find all of our valuable tips and tricks to make sure you get the most out of your new beginner’s sex toy.

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The material your toy is made from can have a significant influence on your experience, affecting things like how comfortable you feel during penetration, or the types of sensations you get from your toy. Each material has its benefits, adapting to different uses and needs. In this section we’ll detail the most common materials you’ll come across when choosing your anal toy, as well as some advice on how to choose the perfect one that meets your needs.

Silicone is well-loved by many for its extreme softness, it's also supple, hypoallergenic and feels very pleasant against the skin. It’s a great choice for beginners as its elastic properties make insertion easier and more comfortable. Some extra benefits: it’s easy to clean and comes in a multitude of textures and colours. Be careful, however, not to use silicone based lubes alongside silicone toys as this risks damaging them.

Just as soft and flexible as our first option, TPE/TPR (thermoplastic elastomer) recreates a natural skin feel. It’s a budget friendly option, ideal for anyone looking to dip their toes into the world of anal play without spending too much money. One thing to look out for with TPE/TPR: this is a porous material so make sure to give your toys a real good clean after every use.

Robust, heavy and a great conductor of heat, metal is the perfect choice if you’re on the hunt for unique sensations, with its firmness allowing for particularly intense stimulation. For even more sensations, you can heat up or cool down your metal toy before use. Hypoallergenic, non-porous and super easy to maintain, metal toys are great for more experienced fans of anal play, or for those specifically after more varied and powerful play time.

Often considered to be the most elegant option, glass (borosilicate glass) is non porous, hypoallergenic and super easy to clean. Its super smooth surface promotes fluid, comfortable penetration, and just like their metal counterparts, glass toys can be heated or cooled to make play even more exciting. They’re also extremely visually pleasing, charming with their refined shapes and artistic looks. This option, however, needs to be approached with caution, although glass toys are very resistant, they can break if they land on a hard surface when dropped.

• ​Slipperiness: Unlike the vagina, the anus does not lubricate itself. Anal lubricants are therefore more slippery than conventional lubricants, helping to prevent irritation during anal penetration. 
• Thicker consistency and longer-lasting glide: Anal lubes are thicker than regular lubes, so you won’t have to reapply as often during sex. That means you can just concentrate on pleasuring yourself and your partner!
• Compatibility: Not all lubes are compatible with certain sex toys. Do not use silicone-based lubricants with silicone sex toys, as this may damage your toy. A water-based or hybrid lubricant will work perfectly in this case.

Remember to check out our buyer’s guides for dildos, butt plugs and prostate massagers. You'll find expert advice for choosing the toy of your dreams.

And don't forget to read our how-to guide How to use an anal douche for a clean and comfortable experience every time!