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How to Choose a Dildo
Posted on 17/02/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Emma
Choosing a dildo may seem like a daunting task at first. That’s why the LOVE Team has written this comprehensive how-to guide to familiarise you with the different types of dildos available on the market. That way, you’ll find just the right model for you!
Our favourite dildos
Dildos, the right toy for everyone
Choose the right material
It is very important to choose the right material for your first dildo. This guide will help you discover the different types of materials used, and then it’s up to you to weigh the pros and the cons of each one.
A silicone dildo
A TPR dildo
A PVC dildo
A metal dildo
Dildos made from stainless steel or brushed aluminium entice with their elegance and robustness. The natural weight of these toys creates a feeling of fullness: every movement becomes more intense and more precise, delighting lovers of solid and controlled stimulation.
Just like glass options, metal excels when it comes to temperature play: run it under hot or cold water for a couple of minutes to vary pleasure, and discover new thrills.
Good to know: metal dildos are compatible with all type of lube, including silicone based lubes.
If this is your first experience with metal, opt for a modestly sized model as its weight quickly accentuates sensations.
A glass dildo
Glass dildos are an original choice for users looking for a more intense experience. The glass used to make glass dildos is high quality, durable and hard-wearing. It is also easy to clean and maintain.
The main advantage of glass dildos is that they can withstand temperature changes, which make them suitable for temperature play. Just dip your dildo in hot or cold water for a few minutes before your dildo play session to experiment with new kinds of pleasure.
Many glass dildos have elaborate, elegant designs, and would not look out of place on your nightstand as a work of art or decoration.
Does a glass dildo tickle your fancy but you’re not quite sure where to start? The LOVE Team have specially created a guide to help you “Choose your glass dildo”.
The perfect size for maximum pleasure
Size is another important factor to take into account while selecting the dildo of your dreams. Beginners and anal sex enthusiasts are generally advised to start with a small dildo so that they can gently get used to the sensations before working their way up to a girthier model.
Let’s have a look at the LOVE Team’s recommendations for choosing the right size dildo.
A small dildo for beginners
If you’re a novice or want to use your dildo for anal penetration, start with a dildo that won’t make your session uncomfortable or painful. We recommend that you start with a small dildo, ideally less than 5.00 inches long with a less than 1.25-inch diameter. This will allow you to get used to the feeling of penetration at your own rhythm. You can jump up a size once you’ve got more experience under your belt.
A medium dildo for more experienced users
Now that you've gained experience, you can increase the size of your dildo to explore more intense penetration. Medium dildos, which are longer and larger in girth than beginner dildos, will treat you to an even more explosiveexperience. Remember to respect your own limits during insertion, and never force yourself to receive a larger girth than you can handle. You shouldn’t be in unnecessary pain during your dildo play session. Your comfort and safety comes first!
A mega dildo for experts only
If you already have considerable experience in the realm of dildo play, you may want to explore more extreme stimulation! Our XXL dildos, which can reach a length of more than 20 inches, will satisfy you completely. The most playful among you can even try the ultimate challenge: a life-sized, fist-shaped dildo for a wild fisting session!
Dildos with a little something extra
A realistic dildo
Realistic dildos look and feel incredibly lifelike, allowing you to enjoy a session that feels just like being with a real man. The dildo’s features are very detailed (testicles, folds, foreskin, tip) for even more realism.
A realistic dildo will make your solo play session even more arousing. You can also use one during partner play to simulate a threesome.
A suction-cup dildo
Suction-cup dildos are easy to stick onto any smooth surface (floor, table, shower, mirror) for a realistic, hands-free experience.
These dildos are the perfect option if you want to stimulate other erogenous zones with your hands or another sex toy. Or, you can just ride your dildo as you would a partner and focus on the pleasure.
A double dong
Double-ended dildos are very versatile, as they feature a realistic penis head at each end and a flexible base. You can bend your double dong into a ‘U’-shape to use it for double penetration during solo sessions, or you can lend one half of your toy to your partner to experience the joys of simultaneous penetration.
Once you've chosen the perfect double dildo, make sure to read our how-to guide: How to use a double dildo.
A vibrating dildo
Vibrating dildos diffuse intense vibrations right to the user’s most sensitive areas. These dildos usually have several speeds, modes and power settings, so you can fully customise your solo play session. You can also use this kind of dildo as a simple vibrator on your external erogenous zones.
An ejaculating dildo
If you're a fan of being on the receiving end of a cum shot, ejaculating dildos are an excellent choice. The dildo’s pump will allow you tosimulate ejaculationby using a semen-effect lubricant. You can also use water instead of lube to simulate a golden shower. An ejaculating dildo allows you to enjoy a satisfying creampie without the risk of an unexpected pregnancy.
A thrusting dildo
Those who want to replicate all of the sensations of a steamy sex session without a partner should opt for a thrusting dildo! Equipped with a powerful motor that perfectly imitates the thrusting action of real sex, a thrusting dildo will make your solo play incredibly realistic. Best of all, they require next to no effort on your end, so you can just lie back and relax.
A hairy dildo
Our range of hairy dildos offers a unique and realistic experience for users. Made of liquid silicone, these dildos stand out with their soft, natural feel and meticulously detailed appearance. Each model features lifelike details such as colourful veins and a thick tip, as well as synthetic pubic hairs on the testicles for even more realism.
These dildos also come with a powerful suction cup, which you can stick onto any smooth surface for hands-free fun. This range is perfect for those seeking a more authentic and natural experience, whether for solo play or with a partner. The realistic details and high-quality craftsmanship of these hairy dildos promise a sensual and satisfying experience.
Dog and horse dildos
Dog dildos and horse dildos are directed at lovers of fantasy sex toys that are on the hunt for more unique shapes. Inspired by animal anatomy, they have a gradually increasing diameter, marked textures and sometimes even a canine knot at the tip. These extravagant silhouettes fill you up gradually and give you powerful sensations that are ideal for role playing or exploring intense sensations.
Moulded using non porous silicone platinum, they mix suppleness and safety with easy sterilisation. They're often generously sized, which means they’re usually best for people who are already familiar with girthier toys. Either way, a good dose of lube and easing your way into things is the perfect combo to ensure maximum comfort.
Make sure you always listen to your body and stop as soon as you feel any discomfort. These fantasy toys are designed for use amongst fully consenting adults.
Dragon dildos
These are the true icons of fantasy sex toys. Dragon dildos summon up the medieval imagination with their supple crests, rings and scales that intensely rub against the anal or vaginal walls. Their undulating curves offer an unprecedented massage with every thrust.
From smaller versions with a length of around 6.00 inches to our XXL options, everybody can find a size and stiffness that fulfills their desires. Platinum silicone can be used to create a dual coloured marble effect, UV pigments or holographic glitter, transforming each toy into a pure work of art.
A dildo for every budget
You’ll find a wide range of dildos on the market at every price point. Quality dildos at affordable prices, and higher-end dildos on the pricier end of the scale. There is truly a dildo for every wallet!
