Fantasies: all our articles to understand, explore and embrace your desires

Praise Kink: Why Compliments Can Be Such a Turn-On
Praise Kink: Why Compliments Can Be Such a Turn-On
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Sometimes, a simple “you’re so good at that” can be more exciting than the dirtiest talk. Praise kink turns compliments, encouragement and approval into a powerful source of arousal.

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Lotion Play: When Slipping and Sliding Turns Sexy
Lotion Play: When Slipping and Sliding Turns Sexy
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Plenty of lube, less friction and a completely different sensory experience. Discover lotion play, what makes it so appealing and our tips for trying it safely and comfortably.

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Sex On a Plane: What’s the Appeal of the Mile High Club?
Sex On a Plane: What’s the Appeal of the Mile High Club?
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The Mile High Club has become one of the most famous sexual fantasies around. But between cramped toilets, zero privacy and the risk of getting caught, the reality is rather different.

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Financial Domination (Findom): Can It Be Ethical?
Financial Domination (Findom): Can It Be Ethical?
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When money becomes a tool for power and pleasure, the rules of the game change. With money, control and consent all intertwined, can financial domination really be ethical? We take a closer look, without judgement.

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Teratophilia: Everything You Need to Know About the Sexy Monster Fetish
Teratophilia: Everything You Need to Know About the Sexy Monster Fetish
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Monsters, dragons, tentacles and fantasy creatures can all feature in teratophilic fantasies. Discover how this kink plays with the unusual, the imaginary and desires that fall outside the norm.

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There’s Nothing Sexy About Kink Shaming
There’s Nothing Sexy About Kink Shaming
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We all have our own desires, curiosities and limits. But when something falls outside the norm, judgement can quickly creep in. Why do certain kinks provoke such strong reactions, and how can we stop shame from taking over?

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Explore Your Animal Side in the Bedroom with Primal Play
Explore Your Animal Side in the Bedroom with Primal Play
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Primal play is less about scripts and more about instinct. Discover why this BDSM practice appeals to so many people, how it works and the importance of communication and consent.

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Sex Around the World: Dogging in the UK
Sex Around the World: Dogging in the UK
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Often associated with the UK, dogging combines public sex, voyeurism and exhibitionism. Discover where this practice comes from, why it appeals to some people and the culture that surrounds it.

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Mecanophilia: Why Are Machines so Sexy?
Mecanophilia: Why Are Machines so Sexy?
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Attraction to machines may sound surprising, but it's a fantasy that does exist. Here's what mechanophilia means and how some people choose to explore it. 

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Eonism: What Is it Really All About?
Eonism: What Is it Really All About?
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Eonism is a little-known and often misunderstood subject. Learn more about this intimate fantasy through a balanced and judgement-free perspective.

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You Can Look, but You Can’t Touch: Does Consensual Voyeurism Excite You?
You Can Look, but You Can’t Touch: Does Consensual Voyeurism Excite You?
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What if looks were enough to kindle desire? Find out everything there is to know about consensual voyeurism, from observing, fantasising and mounting tension.

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Objectophilia: Everything You Need to Know
Objectophilia: Everything You Need to Know
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Is it really possible to develop romantic attachments to an object? Objectophilia intrigues by how it defies social norms. Find out everything there is to know here.

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Sex Around the World: Maithuna, Tantric Sex with Indian Roots and a Thai Flare
Sex Around the World: Maithuna, Tantric Sex with Indian Roots and a Thai Flare
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Maithuna is a practice rooted in the tantric tradition that emphasises presence, connection and conscious intimacy. An approach where sensuality is explored through attention, awareness and mutual connection.

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Wrestling Fetish: the Fighting Fantasy
Wrestling Fetish: the Fighting Fantasy
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Fetish wrestling combines wrestling, tension and a power struggle within a consensual framework. It is a fantasy in which challenge, physical contact and role play take centre stage.

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CPR Fetish: When Fantasy Meets Saviour Complex
CPR Fetish: When Fantasy Meets Saviour Complex
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CPR fetish reimagines the world of resuscitation as an erotic scenario. A niche fantasy that blends tension, vulnerability and the thrill of roleplay.

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Vanilla Sex, Is it Really that Basic?
Vanilla Sex, Is it Really that Basic?
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Although often dismissed as too simple, vanilla sex is far from boring. Find out why it can be one of the most satisfying forms of sexuality.

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Breast Expansion Fetish: a Fantasy and Imagination Filled Interest
Breast Expansion Fetish: a Fantasy and Imagination Filled Interest
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A surprising fantasy, often linked to fiction and bodily transformation. Breast enlargement is as intriguing as it is thought-provoking. Here’s what you need to know.

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Technosexuality: When Technology Becomes the Object of Desire
Technosexuality: When Technology Becomes the Object of Desire
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An attraction to robots, fantasies about AI, a desire for the future… Technosexuality challenges our preconceptions and questions our relationship with pleasure in the digital age.

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Top Tips on Exploring Kink and Fetish Freely and Safely
Top Tips on Exploring Kink and Fetish Freely and Safely
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Kinks, BDSM, fetishism: marginal practices or ordinary sexualities? Our favourite sexologist Louise Paitel takes stock of consent, safety, well-being and essential clinical guidelines.

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Face-Fucking: History, Top-Tips and How to Stay Safe
Face-Fucking: History, Top-Tips and How to Stay Safe
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Irrumation is as intriguing as it is seductive. Between control, abandonment and communication, discover how to practise it safely and make it an intense, respectful and fully consensual experience.

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Understanding Objectification Kinks: from Fantasy to Clear Consent
Understanding Objectification Kinks: from Fantasy to Clear Consent
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Dive into the world of objectification kink, an erotic practice based upon consent, setting the scene and letting go. Let’s find out together the keys to exploring this kink safely.

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Vorarephilia: A Taste of the Cannibal Fantasy
Vorarephilia: A Taste of the Cannibal Fantasy
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Cannibalism and sexual arousal… What if vorarephilia wasn’t a shocking fantasy, but more so a codified paraphilia? We take a look at the subject- from roles and variations to limits.

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Body Painting: Sketch Out Your Fantasies
Body Painting: Sketch Out Your Fantasies
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Erotic body painting mixes art, eroticism and complicity. Paint your desires onto your partner’s skin and let your desires speak for you, for an intimate experience that is unique and creative.

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Breeding Kink: Why the Risk of Falling Pregnant Is Sexy for Some
Breeding Kink: Why the Risk of Falling Pregnant Is Sexy for Some
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Ever wondered why some people are turned on by the risk of pregnancy during sex? Welcome to the world of breeding kinks and discover how to explore them safely with your partner.

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Cheating Fantasies: What Do They Really Mean?
Cheating Fantasies: What Do They Really Mean?
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Ever wondered why you're having those cheating fantasies? Read our latest article to understand their meaning and learn how to explore these thoughts in a healthy way to strengthen your relationship.

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