How to have sex in your car

Posted on 21 July 2023 by Natalia
How to have sex in your car
Making love in a car is a common fantasy, often depicted in films or evoked in love songs. In practice, the idea is tempting, but requires a bit of organisation beforehand: how can you make yourself as comfortable as possible, enjoy total discretion and manage to keep things sexy?

In this article, you’ll find the LOVE Team’s top tips for turning a car-based quickie into an extraordinary memory. If you'd like to experience the pleasures of an intimate moment in your car, here are a few tips to make your sensual escapade a success. Join us for an all-terrain adventure!

Why is making love in a car so exciting?

In general, flouting the usual rules of etiquette can send a shiver of adrenaline down your spine. Breaking social conventions, particularly when it comes to sex, can help to inject a breath of fresh air into your partner play and awaken a somewhat dormant intimate sex life. Pushing back against the boundaries of what's forbidden will inevitably spice up your relationship, so step off of the beaten track and live out your fantasies! We promise you won’t regret it.

The bedroom can be a boring, routing arena for sex. Your car, on the other hand, may be more cramped, but that’s half the fun: you’ll have no choice but to be creative and get closer than ever before!

How to get ready for car sex

To make your vehicular love session a total success, don’t forget to prepare! Here are a few things to think of before setting off to do your thing:

Choose the perfect location: The most important thing is to choose a discreet location where you won’t be seen. Remember to obey the law and to avoid taking unnecessary risks. A country lane, a secluded beach, a deserted car park....the possibilities are endless. Always remember that it's always possible that someone may see you, so stay alert throughout your adventure!

Make your car comfortable: While your car obviously won’t be as comfortable as a plush bed, you can always bring a few cushions and a blanket to make things cosier.
Don't neglect hygiene: Your car should be welcoming and spotlessly clean. The smell of cold tobacco or rubbish is a real turn-off. Don't forget to bring cleaning cloths and rubbish bags to spot clean afterward.
Take the weather into account: A car that's too hot or too cold could spoil your intimate getaway. Check the weather forecast before you set off!

The best positions for car sex

The cramped conditions of the car will definitely limit your options. But if you feel a bit bold (and flexible!) you'll have an unforgettable time. Here are the LOVE Team’s favourite positions for car sex:

The spooning position: First, lower the back seats of the car. One partner will embrace the other from behind, with both partners facing the same direction. This position is perfect if you’re looking for a tender and intimate moment for two.
The reverse cowgirl position: First, lower the back seat as far as it will go. One of the partners (usually the woman, but any combination is possible), will straddle the second partner with their back turned toward them. Your partner will love the view!

Remember to take some useful accessories

To make your session as perfect as possible, use some erotic accessories to help you make the most of your moment.

Lubricant

Lubricant: Whatever the situation, lube is an essential ingredient that you should always have on hand to increase the comfort and pleasure of your love sessions. There are many types of lubricant (water-based or silicone), so you're bound to find the right one for you!

Small sex toys: The possibilities are endless! Opt for a mini vibrator, a clit stimulator, a cock ring...We recommend bringing along a sex toy that you can easily handle in the car (in other words, nothing too large).

BDSM toys: Why not add a blindfold or handcuffs to your session? The confined space of a car is perfect for bondage play, which will add even more excitement to your experience. Don't forget to get your partner's consent before your session and agree on a safe word so that you can let each other know if you want to stop immediately.

LOVE Team Tip
Make sure you check the handbrake before you start your session. It would be unfortunate if your car started rolling downhill at the worst possible moment!