How to make love in public

Posted on 13 April 2023 by Natalia
How to make love in public
Feel like breaking free from your regular sexual routine? Maybe it’s time to give your love life an adventurous short in the arm. Why not try having sex in public? To get started, you need to be bold and imaginative, but you also need to know how to go about it in the right way. Allow the LOVE Team to be your guide!

In this article, we’ll explain why some people find the idea of having sex in public areas so exciting. But there are some safety measures to take into account to guarantee your and your partner’s comfort and pleasure. Read on if the idea of making love with your partner in public is a total turn-on.

Why should you make love in public?

Taboo for some, unbelievably sexy for others, making love in public is an unforgettable experience to share with your partner. Here are the main reasons why:

  • The fear of being surprised or seen by a third party makes the experience all the more exciting. The sensations you feel are more intense. Making love in public gives you the impression of pushing your own limits and performing an almost illicit act. Thrills and heightened adrenaline are guaranteed! 
  • If you and your partner are finding yourselves in a sexual rut, the prospect of a sneaky erotic adventure is sometimes enough to rekindle the passion of the early days. Taking the plunge will strengthen your intimate bond. 
  • Having a taste of the forbidden is part of the pleasure. Sometimes it's by breaking the rules that we feel most alive. So why not just go for it?

While sex in public can be a total turn on it is not without risk. In the UK, sex in public may be considered a lewd act (especially if you’re in a particularly crowded area). If you’re caught by the police, you may get off with a warning, or you may find yourself slapped with a fine. That’s why it’s important to be discreet at all times, and not try to intentionally expose yourselves to passersby.

Which location should you choose?

To keep your session as exciting as possible, it's important to find a location that is sufficiently exposed, but where there is little or no risk of being caught. The following list will give you some ideas to work with. But don't forget to respect the privacy of others, who may not want to see you in flagrante delicto!
  • A public park or beach: Parks and beaches tend to be less crowded in the evening. They allow for a certain amount of privacy, but they're still very exciting, as there's always the possibility of being surprised by someone taking their evening constitutional.
  • Your car or a dark place: Park your car in a secluded corner or walk down a deserted street. You'll be able to take full advantage of the obscure semi-public location.
  • A balcony: Although you're outside, you'll be protected from prying eyes.
  • A boat: Away from the crowds, on the deck of a boat, take advantage of an escapade at sea to indulge in a little fun.
  • A fitting room: While the risk is high and the space is limited, a fitting room can be one of the most exciting public locations of all. Just be careful and respect the customers and the staff. Just don’t choose your favourite shop, lest you be banned from ever coming back!
  • At a friend's house: During an evening out, take refuge in a locked room to enjoy an intimate moment with your partner. Respect your host and their guests by being discreet and removing all traces of your quickie.

How should you prepare for sex in public?

It's a good idea to make sure you're properly equipped to ensure that your session is a success.

  • Remember to pack condoms and lube. And don't forget your favourite sex toys!
  • A blanket and pillow will help you create a comfortable environment.
  • Bring a bottle of water to refresh yourselves.
  • Bring a torch to help you find your way around in the dark.

How can you avoid being caught?

Even if you think you've planned everything, you should always expect the unexpected. Here are some tips to help you avoid being caught.
  • Forget foreplay: Sex in public isn’t about drawing out the pleasure! Time is not on your side, so get to the main act as quickly as possible. You'll be less likely to be caught.
  • Find somewhere dark: Hide, avoid exposed places and take advantage of shady spots.
  • If you're a woman, wear a skirt or dress so that you can change quickly.
  • If you’re caught, deny everything: If you are stopped by the police, always deny what you have been accused of. Apologise and remain calm.
  • Always act with great caution: Don't take any unwise risks and respect any possible witnesses…they didn’t ask to be first-row spectators to your sexy love show!