How to give her an orgasm without penetration

Posted on 27 January 2023 by Natalia
How to give her an orgasm without penetration

Looking for new ways to give your partner pleasure without penetrative sex? Look no further! 

Here at LOVE AND VIBES, we've put together a few foolproof techniques for heating things up and making your partner climax without penetration. So, are you ready to explore new avenues of pleasure?

Why have sex without penetration?

There are many reasons why having sex without penetration can be an interesting option for any couple. First of all, it allows you to take the time to get to know each other and discover each other's preferences and needs without rushing into penetrative sex. Penetration is definitely not the only way to please yourself and your partner.

Plus, non-penetrative lovemaking can help prevent unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. It can be incredibly helpful if your partner is menstruating but you still feel like getting frisky.

Finally, foregoing penetration can be a way to creatively spice up sex and discover new sensations. There are many ways to pleasure your lover without penetration, and exploring these techniques can be very rewarding for both partners.

Clitoral stimulation

Clitoral stimulation

Clitoral stimulation is a very effective technique for giving your partner an orgasm without penetration. The clitoris is a very sensitive erogenous zone for most women and there are many ways to stimulate it for her pleasure.

To stimulate the clitoris with a sex toy, you can use a clit stimulator. There are many models of clit stimulators on the market, with different shapes, materials and features. Some are designed for solo use, while others are more suitable for two-person play.

Cunnilingus is also a very effective technique for stimulating the clitoris: it involves stimulating the clitoris and female genitals with your mouth and tongue. Cunnilingus can be performed in different ways, depending on what your partner likes best.
You can also stimulate her clit with your hands, using circular movements or stroking. Remember to ask your partner how she likes to be touched and pay attention to her needs and preferences. Communication and consent are essential for a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship.

Breast stimulation

Breast stimulation

Breast stimulation can be very pleasurable for your partner and can even lead to a nipple orgasm. There are many ways to stimulate the breasts for her pleasure: each woman will have her own preferences and favourite techniques. All you have to do is ask her!

To stimulate the breasts with a sex toy, you can use a pair of nipple suckers, a toy specially designed for this purpose. Nipple suckers create an exciting suction effect on the breasts.

You can also stimulate your partner's breasts with your hands, using circular movements, stroking or pinching her nipples.

An erotic massage

An erotic massage is an excellent substitute for penetration. Erotic massage is the use of sensual massage techniques to pleasure and relax your partner. You can perform the massage with your hands, massage oils or toys.

There are many reasons why an erotic massage is an ideal alternative to penetration. First, a massage allows you to take the time to get to know your partner to discover their needs in a sensual and intimate way. An erotic massage can be very relaxing and soothing.
Of course, there is nothing to stop you from surprising your partner with a little treat at the end of the massage, such as oral sex or manual stimulation, for even more pleasure and satisfaction.

Dry humping

Dry humping is a sexual practice that involves rubbing against each other without penetration. It can be practised with or without clothing, by rubbing one's genitals against the other, or more generally by rubbing one's body against the other's. Dry humping can be practised alone or with a partner. It is a great way of pleasuring yourself and satisfying your partner without the need for penetration.

Remember, it is important to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases by using condoms or other methods of contraception, even if there is no penetration.


“Hotdogging” involves rubbing your penis between your partner's butt. This can be a very stimulating experience for both partners. If your partner tightens their butt during your hotdogging session, the sensations will be even more intense! For even more pleasure, you can hotdog in the opposite direction, sliding your penis between her labia to stimulate her clitoris.

There are many ways to make your partner come without penetration. Whether you use clitoral stimulation, mutual masturbation, oral stimulation, finger penetration or erotic massage, the options are numerous and allow you to enjoy yourself in a variety of ways. The important thing is to communicate with your partner and find out what suits her best.