How to Give Her an Orgasm Without Penetration

Here at LOVE AND VIBES, we've put together a few foolproof techniques for heating things up and making your partner climax without penetration. So, are you ready to explore new avenues of pleasure?

There are many reasons why having sex without penetration can be an interesting option for any couple. First of all, it allows you to take the time to get to know each other and discover each other's preferences and needs without rushing into penetrative sex. Penetration is definitely not the only way to please yourself and your partner.

Plus, non-penetrative lovemaking can help prevent unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. It can be incredibly helpful if your partner is menstruating but you still feel like getting frisky.

Finally, foregoing penetration can be a way to creatively spice up sex and discover new sensations. There are many ways to pleasure your lover without penetration, and exploring these techniques can be very rewarding for both partners.

Before you even begin to think about direct stimulation, try caressing your partner or doing other activities that awaken the body and senses. The neck, nape of the neck, ears, inner thighs… Each one of these erogenous zones can trigger intense pleasure.

The neck and the nape of the neck are particularly sensitive parts of the body. Graze these areas with the tips of your fingers or plant light kisses across them to make your partner shiver with delight.

The ears are equally sensitive. Gently blow on them, whisper something risqué into your partner's ear or give them a sexy compliment to heighten arousal.

Some people get immense pleasure from being lightly tickled either by hand or using feathers, this is often called knismolagnia. If you and your partner are open to these kinds of sensations, this type of play can quickly cause tensions to rise.

• Breath play: This consists of applying a small amount of pressure on your partner's neck to intensify orgasm. Be very careful however, as this practice should be approached with great care. Communication, establishing clear signals and mutual respect are non-negotiable when it comes to the safety of each person involved.
• Dirty talk: Words have the power to increase arousal. Don’t be afraid to whisper sweet things into your partner’s ear, let them know what you feel, or tell them all your fantasies. You’ll be surprised by the effect that a few well chosen words can have on your partner.
  

Cunnilingus is also a very effective technique for stimulating the clitoris: it involves stimulating the clitoris and female genitals with your mouth and tongue. Cunnilingus can be performed in different ways, depending on what your partner likes best.

You can also stimulate her clit with your hands, using circular movements or stroking. Remember to ask your partner how she likes to be touched and pay attention to her needs and preferences. Communication and consent are essential for a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship.

An erotic massage is an excellent substitute for penetration. Erotic massage is the use of sensual massage techniques to pleasure and relax your partner. You can perform the massage with your hands, massage oils or toys.

There are many reasons why an erotic massage is an ideal alternative to penetration. First, a massage allows you to take the time to get to know your partner to discover their needs in a sensual and intimate way. An erotic massage can be very relaxing and soothing.

Of course, there is nothing to stop you from surprising your partner with a little treat at the end of the massage, such as oral sex or manual stimulation, for even more pleasure and satisfaction.

Dry humping is a sexual practice that involves rubbing against each other without penetration. It can be practised with or without clothing, by rubbing one's genitals against the other, or more generally by rubbing one's body against the other's. Dry humping can be practised alone or with a partner. It is a great way of pleasuring yourself and satisfying your partner without the need for penetration.

Remember, it is important to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases by using condoms or other methods of contraception, even if there is no penetration.

There are many ways to make your partner come without penetration. Whether you use clitoral stimulation, mutual masturbation, oral stimulation, finger penetration or erotic massage, the options are numerous and allow you to enjoy yourself in a variety of ways. The important thing is to communicate with your partner and find out what suits her best.