Bondage harness

Explore our collection of sexy BDSM harnesses, emblems of submission and dominance, designed to add an erotic edge to your intimate play. Worn on bare skin or over clothing, these accessories accentuate every sensual curve. Made of high-quality materials, our harnesses are comfortable, adjustable, and ideal for enhancing your bondage experiences. Indulge in your fetish fantasies with style and safety.

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What is a bondage harness?

A bondage harness, or BDSM harness, is an accessory made up of straps or strips of leather, PVC, fabric, or other materials. It is specifically designed to wrap and adorn the body in a suggestive manner. These sexy harnesses accentuate a man's or woman's erogenous zones by drawing attention to specific body parts, such as the breasts, hips, or genitals.

Some bondage harnesses, known as strap-ons, are also used for penetration.

Beyond their aesthetic appeal, some harnesses can restrict the wearer's movements, adding an element of submission and dominance to BDSM practices.

Where does the BDSM harness come from?

The harness has historical roots that date back to the Middle Ages, where it was used by laborers to pull heavy loads. It wasn't until the 1970s that gay men incorporated the leather harness, adorned with studs and rings, into fetish and bondage culture. These harnesses allowed them to showcase their muscular bodies. In the 1990s, lesbian women also adopted the bondage harness. This popularized it and transformed it into a fashionable and high-end accessory appreciated by a wider audience.

How do I wear a BDSM harness properly?

Wearing a BDSM harness depends on your preferences and the model you’ve chosen. It can be worn on bare skin for maximum visual impact or over clothing or sexy lingerie to add a fetish touch to your outfit. Chest harnesses are typically worn without clothing underneath, allowing chains or leather straps to follow the body's curves. For a more dressed-up look, full bondage harnesses can be worn over lingerie or sexy clothing, such as fishnet bodysuits or skirts. To achieve the right look and fit, take the time to adjust the straps to fit your body using the buckles. Always check the product page to see if the model is one size fits all, or comes in specific sizes.

What kinds of bondage harnesses are there?

A well-chosen harness can become a staple in your sexy wardrobe. There is a variety of BDSM harnesses to cater to different tastes and needs: 

  • Chest harnesses: Highlight the bust and may include chains or straps to accentuate the breasts. 
  • Belt harnesses: Wrap around the waist and sometimes extend down the legs, emphasizing the hips. 
  • Full harnesses: Cover the bust, chest, and sometimes the legs, providing more extensive coverage. 
  • Bra harnesses: Designed to emphasize the breasts, sometimes with openings or chains for added visual appeal. 
  • Strap-on harnesses: Allow for attaching a dildo for penetration.

How do I choose the right bondage harness?

You’ll have to consider several factors to choose the perfect BDSM harness for you:

  • Material: Leather is durable and aesthetic, but PVC, vinyl, and lace offer different sensations and looks. 
  • Comfort: A harness should be adjustable and comfortable, especially if worn for a long time. Make sure it fits well to your body shape. 
  • Aesthetics vs. Functionality: Some harnesses are purely aesthetic, while others are designed for specific play. Determine what you’ll be using the harness for before settling on a model. 
  • Budget: Harnesses vary in price, from budget-friendly options to luxury pieces. Set a budget to find the perfect harness for you.

What accessories can I add to my bondage harness?

Harnesses can be enhanced with a number of different BDSM accessories:

  • Handcuffs and leashes: Attached to the rings of the harness to restrict movement. 
  • Nipple and clit clamps: For added sensations. 
  • Hoods and masks: To add a dimension of sensory deprivation. 
  • Spreader bars: To restrict arm or leg movement. 
  • Erotic toys: Such as wand vibrators, which can be attached to the harness to control the wearer's pleasure.

Some safety tips for using a BDSM harness:

Remember to always use your BDSM harness safely: 

  • Make sure you have the right fit: Ensure the bondage harness is not too tight to avoid restricting blood circulation. 
  • Communicate with your partner: Use a safeword to guarantee the wearer can signal any distress. 
  • Monitor your harness regularly: Regularly check the condition of the straps and the fit while wearing it to prevent discomfort or danger.

How do I clean my bondage harness?

Regular maintenance extends the lifespan of your harness:

  • Clean your harness: After each use, clean the harness with appropriate products. For leather, use a special wax and glycerin to maintain its softness.
  • Store it properly: Store the harness in a dry, dark place, hung up or flat, to prevent mould or flaking.
  • Spot clean if needed: In case of stains, use makeup remover milk on a cotton pad to carefully clean the leather without damaging it.

What kinds of harnesses are available for men?

Men's harnesses, although similar to women's, often have distinct features specifically tailed to the male anatomy: 

  • Chest harness: Large leather or elastic straps that cover the chest. 
  • Specificities: Some models support the testicles and highlight the penis. 
  • Larger sizes: With longer, adjustable straps for a man’s comfort.
  • Colours men like: Colours you’ll love, like blue and black.
  • A look specially for men: Designed to accentuate muscles and provide a masculine look.

Where can I buy a BDSM harness?

You’ll find just the right bondage harness at just the right price on our online shop. We offer a wide range of sexy products and BDSM lingerie that will cater to all tastes and pleasures. Browse our collection to find harnesses, ball gags, spreader bars, nipple clamps, and many other accessories at various price points to enhance your BDSM adventures. You can order easily and discreetly on LOVE AND VIBES to have your naughty items delivered directly to your door.

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