How to choose a strap-on

Ready to explore new kinds of pleasure? At LOVE AND VIBES, we know that choosing the perfect strap-on dildo can be intimidating, especially if it's your first purchase. This guide will help you find the sex toy that best suits your needs, experience and budget.

The LOVE Team will give you a complete overview of the selection of strap-on dildos available in our shop. We’re here to help you find the perfect toy for both you and your partner, to make your first strap-on session a positive experience. Let’s go!

The pleasures of using a strap-on dildo

Using a strap-on dildo with your partner will strengthen the intimate bond that you share. By wearing a strap-on, your partner will be able to penetrate you, intensely stimulating the orifice of your choice. Using a strap-on dildo is an incredible way of exploring new sensations together!
Hollow strap-on dildos are also designed to be worn by a man to compensate for erectile dysfunction, or simply to increase his natural size.

Using a strap-on dildo requires open communication and mutual consent between you and your partner. Take the time to choose the strap-on dildo that best suits you and your partner's needs and remember that using lube and a condom will enhance your experience.

Should I choose a model with or without a harness?

Strap-ons come in both harness and harness-free models, with both options having their advantages and disadvantages. Allow the LOVE Team to explain the differences between these two types of strap-on so that you can choose the one that suits you best!

The advantages of a strap-on with a harness

Strap-on harnesses are incredibly popular with couples looking for exciting new sensations. Strap-on harnesses have adjustable straps and a hard base into which the dildo is inserted. The harness holds the dildo securely in place during penetration. These harnesses are very easy to clean.

 

These harnesses are available in a wide variety of durable materials, like leather, cotton or nylon.


Strap-on harnesses are a good option for beginners, as they make the dildo easier to control and handle for greater stability during thrusting. As these harnesses are adjustable, they’re suitable for all body types.

The advantages of a strapless strap-on dildo

Strapless strap-on dildos do not have a harness, but rather a second shaft that is inserted into the wearer's vagina, so both partners can enjoy the feeling of being penetrated at the same time.

There are even strapless strap-ons for triple stimulation, featuring a small shaft for the wearer’s anus. This extra bit of stimulation will give you an even more intense experience.

Strapless strap-on dildos are generally more comfortable than strap-on harnesses. They are also more discreet, as you can even wear one underneath your clothes to surprise your partner out in public!

What material should I choose for my strap on?

When buying a strap-on dildo, take the time to choose the material that best suits your needs and preferences. There are several types of materials to choose from, each with their own advantages and disadvantages. Here are a few of the most popular materials used for strap-on dildos.

A PVC strap-on dildo

A PVC strap-on dildo is an affordable option for beginners. PVC is a synthetic material that is both flexible and rigid. The firm texture gives the user more intense and precise kinds of sensation. PVC is easy to clean and can be used with all types of lubricants.

A silicone strap-on dildo

Silicone strap-on dildos are great for couples looking for new sensations. Silicone is a soft and flexible material. Lightweight and very soft to the touch, silicone is the perfect material for beginners.
Silicone strap-on dildos are non-porous, so you can sterilise them for safe sharing. This makes them particularly suitable for anal play.
Silicone strap-on dildos are slightly more expensive than PVC strap-on dildos, but they will last much longer. Think of your silicone dildo as an investment – if you take care of it properly, you’ll be able to keep it for years to come.

A TPE strap-on dildo

Strap-on dildos made from TPE are an affordable alternative to silicone models. TPE is a flexible synthetic material with a realistic texture.
TPE is very soft to the touch and feels comfortable against even the most sensitive skin. However, TPE is a porous material and cannot be sterilised. This means that they require even more care and cleaning than silicone dildos to keep them in excellent condition.

What size should I choose for my strap-on dildo?

The size of your strap-on dildo is an important factor to consider when browsing around. The LOVE Team recommends that you start with the smallest size possible and then move up to larger sizes once you’ve gained a bit of experience.

A small size for beginners

Strap-on beginners should start with a very small size. Anal penetration can be intense the first time, so it is important to get used to the new sensations at your own rhythm. Start with a dildo less than 5.00 inches long with a diameter of less than 1.25 inches. Go even smaller, if possible.
That way, you can gradually get used to the sensations of anal penetration, with feeling the pain and discomfort of a large dildo. Opt for a dildo with a tapered tip for easy insertion.

Increase the size to match your experience

Once you’ve gotten used to using a smaller strap-on dildo, you can gradually increase the size as desired. Remember to talk to your partner before opting for a larger size. Be careful not to increase the size too quickly and take your time.

We offer a wide range of strap-on dildo sizes for the more experienced user. Check out our selection with your partner and choose the perfect dildo together to enhance your intimate moments!

A strap-on dildo for every need

At LOVE AND VIBES, we offer a wide range of strap-on dildos, each with unique features to match your mood perfectly. Whether you're a fan of a classic smooth dildo or looking for an innovative design, you're bound to find the perfect strap-on dildo for you.
You'll find vibrating strap-on dildos, remote control models, realistic designs, triple stimulation models (vaginal, anal and clitoral) and even app-controlled strap ons. We truly have a strap-on dildo for every taste!

Hollow strap-on dildo

Hollow strap-on dildo
Hollow strap-on dildos are designed specifically for men. You can glide your penis into a hollow strap-on to increase its size, both in thickness and in length.


Hollow strap-ons have many advantages. First, they’re a lifesaver if you suffer from erectile dysfunction, as they allow you to last longer. They’ll also increase your self-confidence by making your member larger than ever before.

O-Ring strap-on dildo

O-Ring strap-on dildo
O-ring strap-on dildos have an attachment system that allows you to easily change dildos, so you can experiment with different materials, sizes, and features.

 

O-ring strap-on dildos are also a budget-friendly option, as there’s no need to replace the entire harness when trying a new dildo. Simply replace the dildo if you feel like making a change!

Ejaculating strap-on dildo

Ejaculating strap-on dildo
Ejaculating strap-on dildos have a manual pump that squirts out a liquid from inside the dildo. You can use an ejaculating dildo to simulates ejaculation or urination – simply use water as fake urine or a sperm-effect lube as fake semen. This type of strap-on dildo is perfect for fans of cumshots and golden showers.

Vibrating strap-on dildo

Vibrating strap-on dildo
Vibrating strap-on dildos emit intense vibrations with the touch of a button. These dildos are designed to stimulate your and your partner’s most sensitive areas during penetration, enhancing your experience.

 

Vibrating dildos equipped with a remote control are even more exciting, as you can hand the remote over to your partner and let them control the good vibrations.

Double strap-on dildo

Double strap-on dildo
As the name suggests, a double strap-on dildo is equipped with two separate shafts: one for the vagina, the other for the anus. This kind of strap-on will allow you to experiment with the powerful sensations of double penetration.


Double strap-on dildos should only be used by those who are already fans of strap-on play, as the experience is a bit too intense for total novices. Remember that it is important to take your time and not to rush!

How much should I pay for my strap-on dildo?

The price of a strap-on dildo depends on its material and the features it has. A basic model will generally be cheaper than a more complex model with advanced features (such as a vibrating or ejaculating strap-on dildo). A silicone dildo will generally be more expensive than TPE or PVC.

We recommend that beginners start with a simple and affordable model. If you like using your strap-on, you can then invest in a more expensive model later on. If you are going to use your strap-on dildo frequently, choose a quality model that will meet your needs in the long term, rather than a cheap model.

Using a strap-on dildo will add variety to your sex life. There is a wide variety of models, all with certain advantages and disadvantages. Don't forget to take into account your desires and those of your partner when selecting a strap-on dildo.
The LOVE Team is available to help you make the best choice: don't hesitate to contact us, as we will be delighted to help you!