How to Choose a Strap-on
Posted on 10/02/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Claire
The LOVE Team will give you a complete overview of the selection of strap-on dildos available in our shop. We’re here to help you find the perfect toy for both you and your partner, to make your first strap-on session a positive experience. Let’s go!
Our favourite strap-on dildos
The pleasures of using a strap-on dildo
Using a strap-on dildo requires open communication and mutual consent between you and your partner. Take the time to choose the strap-on dildo that best suits you and your partner's needs and remember that using lube and a condom will enhance your experience.
Should I choose a model with or without a harness?
The advantages of a strap-on with a harness
Strap-on harnesses are incredibly popular with couples looking for exciting new sensations. Strap-on harnesses have adjustable straps and a hard base into which the dildo is inserted. The harness holds the dildo securely in place during penetration. These harnesses are very easy to clean.
These harnesses are available in a wide variety of durable materials, like leather, cotton or nylon.
Strap-on harnesses are a good option for beginners, as they make the dildo easier to control and handle for greater stability during thrusting. As these harnesses are adjustable, they’re suitable for all body types.
The advantages of a strapless strap-on dildo
Strapless strap-on dildos do not have a harness, but rather a second shaft that is inserted into the wearer's vagina, so both partners can enjoy the feeling of being penetrated at the same time.
There are even strapless strap-ons for triple stimulation, featuring a small shaft for the wearer’s anus. This extra bit of stimulation will give you an even more intense experience.
Strapless strap-on dildos are generally more comfortable than strap-on harnesses. They are also more discreet, as you can even wear one underneath your clothes to surprise your partner out in public!
What material should I choose for my strap on?
A PVC strap-on dildo
A silicone strap-on dildo
Silicone strap-on dildos are great for couples looking for new sensations. Silicone is a soft and flexible material. Lightweight and very soft to the touch, silicone is the perfect material for beginners.
Silicone strap-on dildos are non-porous, so you can sterilise them for safe sharing. This makes them particularly suitable for anal play.
Silicone strap-on dildos are slightly more expensive than PVC strap-on dildos, but they will last much longer. Think of your silicone dildo as an investment – if you take care of it properly, you’ll be able to keep it for years to come.
A TPE strap-on dildo
Strap-on dildos made from TPE are an affordable alternative to silicone models. TPE is a flexible synthetic material with a realistic texture.
TPE is very soft to the touch and feels comfortable against even the most sensitive skin.
However, TPE is a porous material and cannot be sterilised. This means that they require even more care and cleaning than silicone dildos to keep them in excellent condition.
What size should I choose for my strap-on dildo?
The size of your strap-on dildo is an important factor to consider when browsing around. The LOVE Team recommends that you start with the smallest size possible and then move up to larger sizes once you’ve gained a bit of experience.
A small size for beginners
Increase the size to match your experience
We offer a wide range of strap-on dildo sizes for the more experienced user. Check out our selection with your partner and choose the perfect dildo together to enhance your intimate moments!
A strap-on dildo for every need
Hollow strap-on dildo
Hollow strap-on dildos are designed specifically for men. You can glide your penis into a hollow strap-on to increase its size, both in thickness and in length.
Hollow strap-ons have many advantages. First, they’re a lifesaver if you suffer from erectile dysfunction, as they allow you to last longer. They’ll also increase your self-confidence by making your member larger than ever before.
O-Ring strap-on dildo
O-ring strap-on dildos have an attachment system that allows you to easily change dildos, so you can experiment with different materials, sizes, and features.
O-ring strap-on dildos are also a budget-friendly option, as there’s no need to replace the entire harness when trying a new dildo. Simply replace the dildo if you feel like making a change!
Ejaculating strap-on dildo
Ejaculating strap-on dildos have a manual pump that squirts out a liquid from inside the dildo. You can use an ejaculating dildo to simulates ejaculation or urination – simply use water as fake urine or a sperm-effect lube as fake semen. This type of strap-on dildo is perfect for fans of cumshots and golden showers.
Vibrating strap-on dildo
Vibrating strap-on dildos emit intense vibrations with the touch of a button. These dildos are designed to stimulate your and your partner’s most sensitive areas during penetration, enhancing your experience.
Vibrating dildos equipped with a remote control areeven more exciting, as you can hand the remote over to your partner and let them control the good vibrations.
Double strap-on dildo
As the name suggests, a double strap-on dildo is equipped with two separate shafts: one for the vagina, the other for the anus. This kind of strap-on will allow you to experiment with the powerful sensations of double penetration.
There are also models that are designed to perform simultaneous penetration on both partners. In this case, each partner gets stimulation from a dildo being inserted in them, making the experience a shared one that favours deep connections. This type of strap-on is ideal for couples who are on the hunt to create strong bonds and enjoy synchronised sensations.
Double strap-on dildos should only be used by those who are already fans of strap-on play, as the experience is a bit too intense for total novices. Remember that it is important to take your time and not to rush!
Second skin strap-on dildo
Second skin strap-on dildos are designed to mould to your body. They’re extremely realistic and feel incredibly natural to the touch, making this option unique compared to the rest. These defining characteristics offer feelings that closely emulate sex with a real penis.
They’re often made using high quality TPE or premium silicone, both of which are extremely supple and have a softness that imitates that of real human skin. Certain models boast a well defined head, visible veins and an anatomically accurate shape to allow you to immerse yourself fully in the experience.
This type of strap-on dildo is well-loved by couples looking to reproduce sensations closely resembling that offered by a penis, without compromising on comfort or intensity. Lightweight and well-fitting, it gives you full freedom of movement whilst ensuring everything stays completely in place.
How much should I pay for my strap-on dildo?
We recommend that beginners start with a simple and affordable model. If you like using your strap-on, you can then invest in a more expensive model later on. If you are going to use your strap-on dildo frequently, choose a quality model that will meet your needs in the long term, rather than a cheap model.
The LOVE Team is available to help you make the best choice: don't hesitate to contact us, as we will be delighted to help you!