How To Give your Partner an Ass Job

You’ve surely already heard of a tit wank , the sensual practice in which pleasure is derived from your member being rubbed between your partner's breasts. However, have you heard of the lesser known yet just as titillating ass job? Also known as hotdogging, this is where stimulation is provided by the penis sliding between a partner’s bum cheeks. It’s an intense way for you and your partner to share a moment of pleasure during those moments when penetration isn't a factor, like when someone is on their period, or even if you’d just like to try something new in the bedroom. The LOVE Team is back with another comprehensive step by step guide to help you figure out how to transform the ass job into a must-have in your sexual arsenal.

An ass job isn’t a well known practice, but it’s something we think that you should get to know. It’s simple, just rub your penis between your partner's bum cheeks, performing thrusting motions, but don’t actually penetrate the anus. The partner doing the thrusting is generally the one controlling the rhythm, but the other partner doesn’t have to be completely placid. They can wiggle their bum or adjust their posture in order to intensify sensations. It’s a real opportunity for two people to connect in a fun, sensual way that offers an exciting alternative to more classic sex moves.

For the one doing the rubbing, sensations are procured largely thanks to the natural pressure created by the tight space in between the arse cheeks, creating a point of contact that is both soft, yet tight and extremely stimulating. If this part of your partner's body really turns you on, then just the sight alone of each movement will make the experience electrifying.

And for the person offering up their bodacious behind, you don’t have to worry about missing out on all the fun. Even without penetration, this area of the body is full of nerve endings that make every single brush against your skin palpable. Ass jobs are also ideal if you want to dip your toes into the world of anal play, they’re a great preliminary step before diving straight into penetration . Overall, this is the perfect way for couples looking to mix things up in the bedroom, spice up foreplay and discover new sensations together.

With an ass job, it’s important that both partners are comfortable, trusting and can communicate openly. To ensure both partners are enjoying themselves, the atmosphere has to be right: choose the perfect position and take the time to savour each movement. Here’s a simple little step-by-step guide to help you transform this moment into a sensual bond building one.

Get settled in somewhere comfortable, this will make the experience more pleasant for the both of you. A cosy bed or a wide couch are both great options. The receiving partner lies down on their stomach with their back lightly arched to create the perfect angle. If this position gets uncomfortable, try doggy style instead as this puts less pressure on the stomach. You can also switch roles with the receiving partner taking a more active reverse cowgirl position, allowing them to control the movement. Try out different things, adjust as you go and have fun experimenting with what you enjoy.

Protection is still super important, even when there’s no penetration happening. Sperm can come in contact with the vulva or the anus, causing a risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections, it’s therefore best to stay safe and use a condom. Make sure to use a good quality lube, as the skin around the arse cheeks is not naturally lubricated. If you want to be sure that the experience is a pleasant one and that the movements are fluid, then don’t be scared to apply a generous amount of lube.

Take it slowly, there’s no need to rush. Slide your penis between your partner’s cheeks, don’t penetrate the anus. Communication is key: ask your partner if it feels good and adjust depending on their reaction. This is a very sensitive area so make sure you pay attention to each movement, this way everyone will be having some sexy fun.

When you’re all set up, let your body do the talking. Try out different rhythms and speeds- slow and sensual or faster and more energetic- and see what excites you the most. Play around with building tension, breathe in unison and adjust the tempo to find what you both like best.

Once you’ve mastered the basics, it might be time to get creative. Make the most of the proximity to your partner by stimulating other areas: caress them, kiss them, whisper a few naughty things into their ear…

Sex toys are also a great way to amplify pleasure. A bullet vibrator is great for clitoral stimulation, whilst a vibrating cock ring will intensify each thrust. The aim is to enrich your experience without pushing things too far.

When it’s all over, take some time to come back down to Earth and enjoy a tender moment with your partner. Aftercare is the perfect time for you both to hold each other, discuss what’s just happened and share a moment of gentleness together. Talking about what you felt, what you’d like to do again or even other things you’d like to try can be just as exciting as the act itself.

Ass jobs are often practiced by two people, however nothing is stopping you from trying it out in your alone time. If this is something that interests you, then a realistic ass masturbator can help you to accurately recreate these sensations. Models with realistic skin textures, a rounded, bouncy shape and a nice tight space between the cheeks nails that sultry balance between pressure and softness that makes an ass job so attractive. It’s the perfect way to explore pleasure at your own rhythm, test out those fantasies and maybe even prepare you for a shared moment further down the line.

Ass jobs are a great occasion for you and your partner to become closer, have some fun, and to explore new sensations that stray off the beaten path of more run of the mill erotic experiences. Take the time to listen to your desires, communicate with your partner and savour every moment. With a little curiosity and lots of trust, this experience may open a door to a whole word of incredibly saucy games.