The LOVE Team has put together five simple and effective tips to make your blow job hotter and more memorable. Whether you're a beginner or an expert, these tips will help you give your partner even more pleasure... So if you're ready to try something new and get out of your comfort zone, read on!
Why Should I Give My Man a Blowjob?
1. Communicate With Your Partner
Communication is one of the most important parts of a relationship, and sex is no exception. If you want to spice up your blow job game and give your partner maximum pleasure, it is essential to communicate with them to understand their likes and dislikes. Ask him what he wants, what he wants from you in particular, and don't be afraid to ask him about his preferences and boundaries. You can communicate in different ways: verbally, through gestures or even moaning and other noises to express pleasure.
2. Try New Positions
- The “Head-to-Face” position is where you face each other with your partner sitting or standing in front of you. This position allows you to look into each other's eyes and touch each other while you’re giving the blowjob.
- The “Head under” position is where you get under your partner with your head close to his penis. This position can be very pleasurable for your partner as it gives him a great view of your face.
- The “69 Position” is where you stand side by side with your head at your partner's crotch and your own crotch at his mouth. This position allows each person to give and receive pleasure at the same time, which can be very exciting for both of you.
3. Play With Food
Playing with food can be a very fun and sensual way to spice up oral sex. Using food adds an extra dimension of taste and touch to your sex session and will pleasantly surprise your partner.
- Coat your partner’s penis with some soft and creamy whipped cream, and then lick it off,
- Drizzle some jam or caramel to your man’s member to sweeten things up,
- Lick or nibble your partner’s penis while crunching on some fresh fruit, like strawberries or raspberries.
4. Use a Sex Toy
Using a sex toy during oral sex will excite your partner and allow him to experience new sensations. There are many types of sex toys that you can use to improve a blowjob.
Feel free to ask your partner if he has ever used a sex toy, if he wants to, and respect his choice. Communication and mutual respect are essential to get the most out of using sex toys in your relationship.
- A cock ring will make your partner’s erection harder and longer. It will also help him last longer to prolong the experience.
- A testicle massager will massage and caress your partner's balls while you work his pole. This will be very pleasurable and relaxing for him.
- A prostate stimulator will massage and stimulate your partner's prostate, giving him even more intense and explosive orgasms.
5. Explore His Body With Your Hands
- Stroke your partner’s balls for double the pleasure,
- Run your hands over your partner's thighs, buttocks and hips to really get him excited,
- Stimulate the tip of your partner’s penis with your fingers or a sex toy to increase the sensations,
- Massage your partner's back and shoulders to relax them and help them unwind during oral sex.
6. Bonus tip: Try giving him a blowjob in a public(ish) place
For our more daring readers, the idea of giving a blowjob in a semi-public place might have your desire skyrocketing. It’s completely possible to push the boundaries of the forbidden without straying into full on exhibitionism, all whilst maintaining a minimum of discretion. The risk of potentially being caught heightens adrenaline, making the experience for some couples extremely arousing.
Here’s a few ideas for safe yet exciting spaces to try out:
- In the car, parked in a secluded area or when it’s dark outside.
- Under a quilt on the sofa whilst watching a film… in the presence of other people who don’t suspect a thing.
- In a spacious changing room during a risqué shopping trip.
- In a separate room during an evening amongst friends, enjoying a quick private moment together.
The idea, of course, isn’t to get caught in the act, but more so to go beyond the limits of being sensible to indulge in fantasy. The most important thing is that you remain respectful of public spaces and of those around you, and above all, make sure you and your partner are on the same page regarding your desires. If the thought of it peaks your shared interest, partaking in this secretive little game could quickly become your new favourite area of sexual exploration…