5 ideas for spicing up a blowjob: our hottest tips

Oral sex is an incredibly popular sexual act, but it can sometimes be difficult to find new ways to make it more exciting. If you're looking for new ways to spice up your blowies and surprise your partner, this article is for you!

The LOVE Team has put together five simple and effective tips to make your blow job hotter and more memorable. Whether you're a beginner or an expert, these tips will help you give your partner even more pleasure... So if you're ready to try something new and get out of your comfort zone, read on!

Why should I give my man a blowjob?

There are many reasons to treat your man to a round of oral sex. First of all, it’s a fun way to show your affection and desire for your partner. Giving oral sex shows that you are interested in your partner's needs and pleasure, and makes him feel loved and wanted. Plus, oral sex can be a very sensual way of getting closer to your partner and strengthening your emotional bond with them. Fellatio can also be very pleasurable for you too, because you may enjoy the taste, the texture, or simply the pleasure it gives to your partner. Whatever the reason, oral sex can be a very rewarding sexual practice for both partners.

1. Communicate with your partner

Communication is one of the most important parts of a relationship, and sex is no exception. If you want to spice up your blow job game and give your partner maximum pleasure, it is essential to communicate with them to understand their likes and dislikes. Ask him what he wants, what he wants from you in particular, and don't be afraid to ask him about his preferences and boundaries. You can communicate in different ways: verbally, through gestures or even moaning and other noises to express pleasure.

Don't hesitate to talk about what you like, what you don't like and to respect your partner's limits. By actively listening to each other, you will create a relationship of trust and mutual respect that will make your blowjob session even more enjoyable.

2. Try new positions

Trying new positions can be a very exciting way to enhance a blow job. By changing positions, you can play with your tongue, your mouth and give your partner new sensations.

Here are a few examples of positions to try:

The “Head-to-Face” position is where you face each other with your partner sitting or standing in front of you. This position allows you to look into each other's eyes and touch each other while you’re giving the blowjob.
The “Head under” position is where you get under your partner with your head close to his penis. This position can be very pleasurable for your partner as it gives him a great view of your face.
The “69 Position” is where you stand side by side with your head at your partner's crotch and your own crotch at his mouth. This position allows each person to give and receive pleasure at the same time, which can be very exciting for both of you.

Feel free to experiment and find the position that suits you best. The important thing is that you feel comfortable and enjoy each other’s company.

3. Play with food

Playing with food can be a very fun and sensual way to spice up oral sex. Using food adds an extra dimension of taste and touch to your sex session and will pleasantly surprise your partner.

There are many foods that can be used during oral sex. Here are just a few examples:

Coat your partner’s penis with some soft and creamy whipped cream, and then lick it off,
Drizzle some jam or caramel to your man’s member to sweeten things up,
Lick or nibble your partner’s penis while crunching on some fresh fruit, like strawberries or raspberries.

Choose foods that are edible and do not pose a risk of injury or allergy. Don't hesitate to ask your partner about any food preferences.

4. Use a sex toy

Using a sex toy during oral sex will excite your partner and allow him to experience new sensations. There are many types of sex toys that you can use to improve a blowjob.

Feel free to ask your partner if he has ever used a sex toy, if he wants to, and respect his choice. Communication and mutual respect are essential to get the most out of using sex toys in your relationship.

Here are some examples of sex toys that will make your blowjob unforgettable:

A cock ring will make your partner’s erection harder and longer. It will also help him last longer to prolong the experience.
A testicle massager will massage and caress your partner's balls while you work his pole. This will be very pleasurable and relaxing for him.
A prostate stimulator will massage and stimulate your partner's prostate, giving him even more intense and explosive orgasms.

5. Explore his body with your hands

Don't be afraid to turn up the heat by using your hands to explore your partner's body while treating him to a blowjob. By stroking and stimulating different parts of his body, you'll dramatically increase the pleasure he feels.

Here are some ideas for using your hands to explore your partner's body during oral pleasure:

Stroke your partner’s balls for double the pleasure,
Run your hands over your partner's thighs, buttocks and hips to really get him excited,
Stimulate the tip of your partner’s penis with your fingers or a sex toy to increase the sensations,
Massage your partner's back and shoulders to relax them and help them unwind during oral sex.

And that's it! By following our tips, you’ll become a true blowjob queen. Your partner won't be able to resist your talents. The LOVE Team wishes you a fulfilling sex life full of pleasure. Please let us know if you need more advice on how to improve your sexual game.

5 ways to spice up a blowjob