What if a slightly sporty variation on missionary could multiply sensations and transform your romps into a red-hot experience? One of the most intense positions in the Kamasutra, the anvil is an impressive, exciting twist.
Visually impressive, physically demanding and incredibly stimulating, the anvil is great if you want deep penetration and powerful physical contact. If performed properly, it can be fairly accessible and endlessly efficient in exploring new sensations as a couple. Let’s take a look at why the anvil deserves a place in your sexual repertoire.
How to Get into Position
The anvil is sort of like an advanced version of missionary. The person being penetrated lies on their back, hips near the edge of the bed or slightly angled with the help of a cushion. Their legs are lifted close to the chest so that they rest on their partner's shoulders.
The penetrating person places themselves above their partner, facing them. This configuration modifies the angle of penetration for added depth and intensity.
Why is it such an intense position?
- The angle created favours contact with the G-spot and the A-spot.
- The pelvis is slightly turned, increasing pressure and friction.
- Visual contact is extremely present, reinforcing connection.
- It’s easy to control the rhythm to match desired intensity levels.
A quick tip: a firm cushion under the hips will make things more comfortable and help you to maintain the posture for longer, without putting too much pressure on the body.
Why We Love the Anvil
The anvil is a firm favourite because it combines depth, power and control.
First things first, the anvil is great for intense penetration, making it ideal for those on the hunt for powerful sensations. The angle accentuates pressure on internal erogenous zones, that may favour quicker, more powerful orgasms.
Next, the general dynamic of the position creates an interesting mix between vulnerability and control. The receiving person can completely let go, whilst the giver controls the rhythm, depth and intensity.
Finally, the anvil is particularly exciting visually. The proximity of each other’s bodies, the tension created by the legs over the shoulders, the intense eye contact… all of this contributes to a gradual yet electrifying increase in desire.
A little warning: this position requires a bit of flexibility and a lot of communication. Make sure to take things slowly, listen to your body’s signals and adjust the angle if necessary.
Sex Toys to Increase Intensity
The anvil is perfectly adapted to sex toy use. We even recommend it if you want to boost sensations!
A clit stimulator can be used during penetration to give you that added external stimulation. The angle of the position generally leaves enough space to slip one between your bodies.
A vibrating cock ring can also add to the experience by intensifying each brush against the clitoris or the perineum, all whilst helping to maintain a stronger erection.
For couples wanting to explore anal stimulation, butt plugs can give that ‘extra full’ feeling that accentuates internal sensations.
Finally, a sex cushion is going to be your best friend when it comes to supporting the hips and maintaining the perfect angle without causing too much muscle strain.
Taking the Anvil Up a Notch
Looking to go even further? Why not try out some of these variations:
- Place your ankles behind your partner’s shoulders for even deeper penetration.
- Alternate between slower movements and more intense ones, playing around with frustration.
- Add a touch of domination by holding your partner’s wrists or hips against the bed.
- Introduce a rhythm: stop, start, accelerate.
Personalisation is one of the best ways to transform the anvil into a firm favourite between you and your partner. As with anything, the key is to communicate, listen to your partner and respect each other’s limits.
The anvil isn’t just a super hot sex position, it’s an electrifying sensory experience. Intense, engaging, and incredibly stimulating, it’ll transform your sex life in a flash. Go ahead, try it out, adjust and make it your own.