How to Find and Stimulate Your G-Spot

Posted on 10/02/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Claire

You’ve probably heard a lot about the G-spot, but this female erogenous zone is still overlooked by many women during solo play. Many women do not know where it is and are hesitant to explore it. However, finding and stimulating your G-spot will give you extraordinary sensations, enhancing your solo sessions.

The LOVE Team has created this handy guide to help women find their G-spot and stimulate it effectively. Exploring your own body is not something to be ashamed of. On the contrary, experimenting with different methods will send you on the road to intense realms of pleasure. So…are you ready to experience new sensations?

What is the G-spot?

The G-spot is a female erogenous zone located about an inch or so from the entry to the vagina. This area is very sensitive to the touch, so stimulating this area will help you achieve a powerful orgasm.

The G-spot is not a magic button: some women do not know how to find it. However, with a bit of patience, you’ll discover how to add a new dimension to your sex life.

Why should I stimulate my G-spot?

The G-spot is not a magic button: some women do not know how to find it. However, with a bit of patience, you’ll discover how to add a new dimension to your sex life.

How do I find my G-spot?

Now let's get practical. Relax to create a peaceful atmosphere. Light some candles, play some soft music.

Masturbate a little to make your G-spot swell and easier to find.

Once you are aroused, lie on your back. Insert a lubricated finger into your vagina and bend it upwards: you should feel a sensitive, spongy area. This is your G-spot. If you're not aroused, it may be difficult to find, so don't worry, just relax and let your fingers guide the way.

It’s not easy finding the G-spot on your first try. That’s why we’re here to help! Here are a couple of quick tips:

Wait for the right moment: explore your G-spot after a good round of foreplay, or when you’re already feeling super aroused.
Know what it feels like: the G-spot feels slightly bumpy, different to the rest of the vagina.
Get the right movement: the classic ‘come hither’ move (bending your fingers towards the belly button) is the most efficient way of softly stimulating the G-spot.

If you’re struggling to locate the G-spot, give it a go in the bath or shower, making sure to use a good quality water-based lube. The hot water will relax your pelvic muscles, making your down under exploration much easier.

How do I stimulate my G-spot?

Here are our tips for stimulating your G-spot, alone or with a partner.

Stimulate your G-spot during a solo session

The most common method of stimulating the G-spot is to use a sex toy designed specifically for this purpose. There is a wide range of products on the market, including G-spot vibrators and curved dildos.

Vibrators designed specifically for the G-spot provide intense vibrations and give the user extraordinary sensations. You can combine your G-spot vibrator with manual stimulation for an even more intense solo experience.

Curved dildos are perfect for targeting the G-spot. They caress and massage the G-spot with precise thrusting movements. These manual toys allow you to adjust the speed and pressure of the stimulation to your liking.

Stimulate your G-spot with your partner

There are many ways to stimulate the G-spot during sex. Here are some tips to get you started!

Some positions allow direct stimulation of the G-spot: spooning or the wheelbarrow position, for example, allow the penis or dildo to perfectly apply pressure to the area. Remember to talk to your partner about which positions you like best.

Using a couple's sex toy will allow you to switch things up. For example, a vibrating cock ring or couple’s vibrator will give you more pleasure during penetrative sex. Some vibrators come with a remote control for even more excitement!

Remember that communicating with your partner is important. Discuss your preferences and limits, and ask your partner to do the same. Be patient, open to new things and above all, have fun!

What if I don't like G-spot stimulation?

Everyone’s body is different and not everyone will be a fan of G-spot stimulation. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable. Some women enjoy clit stimulation, others the use of sex toys and still others only like penetration. There is no need to force yourself to be like everyone else. Follow your desires and the doors of pleasure will open for you!

Whether you want to discover your G-spot during solo play, or whether you’re looking to try something new with a partner, just remember it’s never a question of passing or failing. The goal is to reconnect with your body and your pleasure, and if this new discovery leads you to new facets of your sexuality, then that’s great! Sexuality is a spectrum of infinite discovery, and no matter what, you’re sure to find something that works for you.

Claire

Sex Toys for Couples and Shared Pleasure

"When it comes to pleasure, anything goes – as long as you’re in it together!"

Having been in a relationship since 2015, Claire Schmidt has explored every side of partner play and knows exactly how to keep that all-important spark alive. Passionate about sexual intimacy and the world of sex toys, she shares practical tips to help couples reignite their desire and discover new sensations as one. From sensual exploration to playful kinks, Claire loves to chat about all the issues that a couple may face in the sheets—with no taboos, just pleasure.

Favourite toy: A remote-controlled love egg – for teasing, tempting, and turning up the heat together.