How to use a pocket pussy

The pursuit of pleasure is nothing new—it's as old as time itself. And with the marvels of modern technology, there's a host of sex toys for men available, designed to enhance your solo or partner play.

Enter the pocket pussy—a modern solution for tactile pleasure. Often made from silicone or TPE, it boasts a textured interior, aiming to replicate the sensations of a genuine intimate encounter.

If you're looking to elevate your solo sessions, keep reading. Whether you're a novice or simply looking to refine your technique, we've got you covered. By the end of this guide, you'll know how to use your toy to its fullest potential. So, if you're ready to embark on this journey of heightened pleasure, stay with us. We're about to break it down, ensuring you're well-equipped for those solo ventures ahead.

1. Choose the right pocket pussy

The first step to a top-notch experience is choosing the right model that aligns with your wants and needs.

Textures can range from the smooth and straightforward to the intensely detailed, boasting ridges, nodules, or even spiral patterns. Some pocket strokers even come with interchangeable inserts, giving you a range of sensations to explore.
When it comes to making your choice, reflect on what gets your motor running. If this is your maiden voyage into the world of pocket pussies, a basic model might be your best bet. But if you're chasing specific sensations, take a moment to read our product descriptions and reviews. They'll give you a good sense of what to expect.

2. Give your pocket pussy a good clean

Before you dive in, give your pocket pussy a once-over, ensuring there aren't any visible defects or damages.

Even if it's fresh out of the box, it's a smart move to clean it before your inaugural use. Opt for a gentle toy cleaner or some lukewarm water paired with mild soap.

Once you've cleaned it, let it air dry thoroughly. A damp pocket pussy can become a breeding ground for bacteria, and trust us, that's not the kind of party you want to be hosting.

3. Use a generous amount of lube

When selecting a lubricant, ensure it's compatible with the material of your stroker. For most models made of silicone or TPE, a water-based lubricant is your best bet.


Generously apply the lube both at the entrance and inside the pocket pussy, as well as on yourself. You'll want to ensure everything is slick and smooth to dodge any unwelcome friction.

4. Plunge into your pocket pussy

As with any intimate act, relaxation is key. Being at ease will make the insertion smoother and the whole experience more pleasurable.

Hold the pocket pussy steady with one hand, and with the other, guide yourself gently inside.

5. Enjoy the ride

Once you're comfortable, it's time to start experimenting with different motions to find out what really hits the spot for you.
Mix up the speed of your movements, from slow to fast, gauging what brings maximum pleasure.
By adjusting the grip on your pocket pussy with your hand, you can ramp up the pressure for a more intense sensation. Some models even come with adjustable features, letting you tweak the pressure at various points.
Give rotational moves or periodic pressures a whirl. The key here is exploration, helping you uncover what works best for you.

6. Try out different positions

The position you're in can massively affect the sensations you feel.

  • Lying down: The classic go-to. Try lying on your back or flipping over onto your stomach to switch things up.
  • Sitting: Whether it's on a chair or the edge of the bed, this position offers a unique angle that can amp up the intensity.
  • Standing: This one's for the adventurous souls or those looking for a distinct sensation.
  • Using a mount or adapter: Some pocket pussies come equipped with mounts or adapters, allowing you to attach them to flat surfaces for a hands-free experience.

7. Clean your stroker – again

A blend of lukewarm water and a PH-neutral soap is typically the most straightforward and effective method to clean most pocket pussies. Ensure you rinse thoroughly to wash away any soap remnants.


There are also cleansers specially crafted for sex toys on the market. These are designed to banish bacteria without causing any harm to the product's material.

When using a Fleshlight, it's important to carefully follow the care and cleaning instructions included in the user's manual. Taking proper care of your Fleshlight will ensure that it will stay in excellent condition for years.

8. Dry your pocket pussy properly

Post-clean, drying is a critical step to ward off mould and boost the longevity of your toy.

Grab an absorbent stick made especially for sex toys to wick away any lingering moisture from the inner canal. Gently slide it in and let it sit for a few minutes.

After using the absorbent stick, let your pocket pussy air dry entirely in a well-ventilated spot. Avoid leaving it in damp or confined spaces.

9. Store your stroker with care

Protect it from dust and other nasties with a dedicated case or pouch crafted especially for sex toys.

If you're a collector with multiple toys, try not to store them side by side, especially if they're made from varying materials—this helps avoid any unwanted chemical reactions.
Finally, tuck your pocket pussy away from direct sunlight, heat, and dampness.
We hope our advice has shed light on the perks of a pocket pussy and how to get the most out of it. Here's to enjoyable times and heaps of fun with your new toy. Always heed usage precautions and prioritise your well-being.
Should you have any further questions or concerns, the LOVE AND VIBES team is here for you. Don't hesitate to reach out!