The devastating effects of smoking on your sex life

Posted on 2 November 2023 by Natalia
The devastating effects of smoking on your sex life
November, the month when trees shed their leaves and countless smokers try to kick their habit to the curb. With Lung Cancer Awareness Month making waves, it's high tide we dive into a topic often overlooked when it comes to lighting up: its effect on your sex life.
Yes, you read that right! While the link between smoking and lung or heart diseases is well-known, its impact on our intimate escapades is less charted waters. Brace yourself to uncover how this little tobacco stick might just be dampening your passion beneath the sheets.

Smoking’s sexy image

Picture yourself at a glitzy Hollywood bash in the 50s. Cinema icons, the likes of James Dean and Marilyn Monroe, cigarette in hand, exchanging sultry glances through swirling smoke. Oh, the allure! Advertisers of the day certainly knew how to ride the wave. They sold us the cigarette as the ultimate emblem of sensuality.
But, of course, every high tide has its ebb. And for tobacco, let's just say the ebb wasn't as 'steamy' as its rise. Scientists, perhaps miffed at missing out on those Hollywood soirées, began to publish studies on the perils of smoking. Tar-blackened lungs, that morning hack, not to mention that... less than fragrant aroma. Warnings surfaced, adverts vanished, and suddenly, smoking wasn't so sizzling anymore.
The cigarette, once a symbol of sensuality, had been dethroned. But what's been its real splash in the bedroom?

How does smoking damage your sex life?

While painting a picture of glitzy nights, it seems tobacco left out a few... shall we say, 'dampening' details when it comes to our bedroom escapades.

For the gents

  • Erectile dysfunction: Cigarettes often sail into choppy waters when it comes to performance. They constrict our blood vessels, reducing the flow where it matters.
  • Dip in libido: Nicotine can also throw off the hormonal balance, leading to a drop in sexual desire. Hormonal imbalances, coupled with smoking's other downers on overall well-being, can leave one's libido stranded at low tide.
  • Sperm quality: Studies have shown that smoking can both reduce the quality and quantity of sperm, potentially affecting fertility.

For the ladies

  • Drop in libido: Just like with the gents, nicotine can disrupt the hormonal balance, leading to a decrease in sexual desire for women.
  • Vaginal dryness: Lighting up can lead to vaginal dryness, making intimacy less pleasurable and sometimes painful. This is due to the cigarette-induced drop in oestrogen production.
  • Impact on fertility: Smoking can also throw a spanner in the works for female fertility. Smoking women might find it harder to conceive and are more likely to face complications during pregnancy.
So, next time you're thinking of sparking up a cigarette before a date, remember what it might truly ignite... or extinguish.

The psychological effects of smoking

While some might see the cigarette as a calming anchor, it can create significant undercurrents in our mental well-being, with direct consequences on our intimate shores.
Eroded self-confidence: Smoking can wash away one's self-esteem, especially due to physical changes like yellowing teeth or that lingering scent, which can dampen confidence during intimate encounters.


Anxiety and depression: Being hooked on nicotine, paired with bedroom blues, can be a breeding ground for anxiety or depression. Sexual hiccups can be stressful in themselves, and when tied to tobacco use, it can spiral into a vicious cycle where performance-related anxiety surges, further fuelling the urge to smoke to manage this stress.

Unattractive physical appearance: Smoking can muddy the waters of skin quality and cause other physical shifts. These changes can alter how one views their own allure and, by extension, how they feel they're seen by their partner.

The bedroom boosts of stubbing out the habit

Kicking your smoking habit doesn't just offer broad health benefits, but also brings about marked improvements in our intimate lives. If the promise of better lung health or a longer lifespan hasn't quite lured you in, perhaps the positive surge in your sex life will.
Better blood flow and sexual performance: Ditching the smokes allows for improved blood circulation. For the gents, this often translates to stronger and longer-lasting erections, as the penis receives optimal blood flow. For the ladies, enhanced circulation can boost lubrication, making intimacy more comfortable and pleasurable.
Increased stamina and energy: Without the cigarette's drag on your lungs and heart, your respiratory and cardiovascular capacity gets a lift. This means your bedroom antics can last longer and be more spirited.
Increased self-confidence: Snuffing out the cigarette can help you reclaim the self-confidence eroded by smoking. Without the worries tied to tobacco's side effects, you're more likely to feel desirable, leading to heightened intimacy and a flourishing sex life.
So, quitting smoking can truly make waves in your sex life. While the journey to a smoke-free life might seem like swimming against the tide, the rewards, both for your overall health and intimate well-being, are well worth the dive.