We sometimes get it into our heads that pleasure has to be experienced through intense, spectacular means. Because of this, we forget about those positions that focus on comfort, rhythm and connection, like the Sphinx. Stable, enveloping and easy to master, it encourages couples to take their time and enjoy gradually mounting sensations.
Before we get into the nitty-gritty, let’s get one thing straight: the Sphinx isn’t some sort of show-stopping position. Here, it’s all about subtlety, small movements and the way your body respond’s to your partner’s. This is exactly what makes the experience such a memorable one, as it focuses on sensations and allows you to discover pleasure in other ways.
How the Sphinx Works
As you may imagine, the sphinx position is inspired by the real life Egyptian monument. The receiving partner lies on their stomach, leaning on their forearms, with their chest raised. The other partner positions themselves behind.
This configuration creates a very particular angle of penetration that’s often deeper and more enveloping than usual. This position naturally slows down movements, inviting couples to perform more precise, measured movements.
The goal isn’t to go as fast as possible, but take your time and focus on sensations.
Why We Love the Sphinx
The sphinx has a little something different that’ll completely change your couple’s dynamic:
- It favours a slower, almost contemplative approach
- Sensations are often deeper and more intense
- The penetrating partner has control over the rhythm
- Although not eye to eye, this position reinforces the connection between you and your partner
It’s a position guaranteed to please anyone who likes to take their time and explore every sensation in depth.
Toys to Intensify the Sphinx
The sphinx is a slow, controlled position, and there are a few accessories that really spice up the experience.
Good lube is always essential, especially when your movements are slow. Sperm-effect lube can add a visual and sensual touch for added fun.
Cock rings are great at drawing out pleasure.
The sphinx is a great position if you want to integrate small stimulators, such as bullet vibrators, that can slip into play without getting in the way.
Another option, that often goes under the radar, is the humble cushion. It can help you to adjust the angle of your pelvis and transform sensations.
Finally, for those couples who love to explore, accessories like textured penis sleeves can modify sensations without you actually having to overcomplicate the position.
Take Things to the Next Level
Once you’re comfortable with the original position, why not get creative?
Play around with rhythm, alternate between stillness and movement to amplify sensations. Adjust your pelvis or the angle of our body, this can be a super simple way to change things up.
The Sphinx is also well suited to a controlled approach, where every movement is chosen rather than simply endured.
Finally, gradually introducing props helps to enrich the experience without detracting from it.
The Sphinx reminds us of one thing: you don’t need to do much to feel deeply. Sometimes, simply slowing down, settling in and taking the time to explore is enough to completely transform the experience.