LOVE Positions: The Butterfly

This position has everything it needs to please as it’s simple, you can adjust the angle of penetration, and your hands are free to roam (or control a sex toy). Come along as we find out how to master the Butterfly so you can boost your sex life, for unforgettable moments between you and your partner(s).

It’s simple, one partner lies on their back with their hips at the edge of the bed, whilst the other remains standing or kneeling in front of them. Your legs can be lifted, placed on your partner's shoulders, held by your partner or lay flat: you can vary this part depending on what you like, as well as your level of flexibility.

This position allows for deep penetration and gives the active partner full control on the rhythm of the thrusts. Your hands are also completely free to roam each other's bodies, caress or stimulate certain areas… or add a sex toy to the mix. A bonus tip: the passive partner can lift or prop up their pelvis for easy G-spot or P-spot stimulation.

This is one of our favourite positions as it provides the perfect balance between comfort and intensity. There’s no need to contort yourself into crazy positions, instead you can focus on the sensations, the steamy looks, or the sensual moans of your partner… This posture highlights intimacy and sensuality, all whilst favouring deep penetration.

The Butterfly is also a great option if you want to be able to speed up or slow down the rhythm depending on your needs. For those who enjoy being dominated, or even those who like to maintain control even in a passive situation, this position is perfect no matter what you desire. It truly is an adaptable, inclusive and incredibly efficient position.

Are you looking to spice up your sessions a little further? Here are a few fun options that go hand in hand with the Butterfly:

• A clit stimulator (a bullet vibrator, or the sucking kind): can be used alongside penetration for guaranteed simultaneous orgasms.
• A vibrating cock ring: stimulates the clitoris with every thrust. Ideal for prolonging pleasure and intensifying sensations for both partners.
• A butt plug: for subtle double stimulation and increased pleasure.
• A warming lube: to explore new sensations and increase arousal at record pace.
  

With a bit of imagination, you can turn this position into the perfect playground for experimentation. For example, you could try bringing handcuffs or blindfolds into the mix to add an element of surprise and a touch of control. Vary the rhythm, let the other person take the lead and switch roles to spice things up.

If you feel totally comfortable, you could even try out the reverse version, where the person lay down is on their stomach with their legs spread, so the penetrating partner can go at it from behind. This is an intense variation for those who like to alternate between soft and dominant.

The Butterfly is, of course, an easy classic, but it’s also so much more than that. It’s an invitation to explore, connect with your partner, and completely let go. This position is both accessible and adjustable, making it perfect no matter your body size or the sexual dynamic you’re looking for. What’s more, with the right toys you’ll be fluttering straight into paradise. So, are you ready to spread those wings (or legs more like)?