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How to Use an Ejaculating Dildo
Posted on 24/03/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Claire
The ejaculating dildo will add an extra layer of realism to your solo or partner play session. This kind of dildo is designed to simulate ejaculation or urination, giving you a lifelike experience and extraordinary sensations.
1. Choose the right ejaculating dildo for you
Before getting down and dirty, make sure to take some time to choose the right ejaculating dildo for you. This type of sex toy is designed to simulate ejaculation or urination thanks to its reservoir system and manual pump (or syringe). It’s important that you opt for a model that meets your expectations regarding sensations, functionalities and comfort.
- Manual pump or syringe? The sensations you feel as well as the time it takes for you to adjust to using your new toy depends on the system you chose. The pump creates a more progressive flow, whereas a syringe allows for more precision.
- What about a vibrating version? Some models offer a combination of vibration and ejaculation, and can even be inflated so you can enjoy more realistic internal dilation.
- Don’t forget size and shape: for more comfortable insertion and use that is adapted to your needs and your own body.
When you take the time to choose a dildo that’s just right for you, you’ll be guaranteeing a moment of pure, realistic pleasure!
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2. Get your dildo ready
Before using your dildo for the first time, you'll need to clean it with warm water and soap. This will remove any dirt or bacteria. Rinse your toy with clear water and dry thoroughly.
Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the dildo and to the orifice you’d like to penetrate. This will reduce harmful friction, making your dildo more comfortable to use (especially for anal play).
If your ejaculating dildo has a vibrating function, don't forget to insert the right amount of batteries into the battery compartment.
3. Choose a liquid that suits your fantasies
Now it’s time to choose the liquid you want to put into the dildo.
Opt for warm water if you’d like to fake a golden shower (urination). If you’d prefer to simulate a creampie or a cumshot, go for a fake sperm lubricant.
Pour the liquid into a small bowl beforehand to make it easier to fill the reservoir of your ejaculating dildo. This will prevent accidental spillage and help you control the amount you use.
4. Fill the dildo
5. Play with your dildo
If you’re looking for more in depth advice on how to use a dildo, take a look at our how-to guide: How to Use a Dildo.
If your dildo has a vibration function, try out the different modes available. You'll find the one that suits you best for even more pleasure.
Take your time! This will allow you to explore every sensation and maximize pleasure.
6. Make your dildo ejaculate!
Once you've played with your dildo, it's time to move on to the main event: making your dildo ejaculate or urinate.
Squeeze the bulb slowly and steadily to control the flow of liquid expelled from the dildo.
7. Clean your dildo
Don't forget to clean your dildo after every session with soap and warm water. You can also use a sex toy cleaner to remove bacteria and dirt. Don't use harsh cleaners that could damage the material of your dildo.
Don’t forget to clean the inside of your dildo:
- Fill a small bowl with warm, soapy water.
- Immerse the head of the dildo and press down multiple times on the pump to suck up the liquid and expel it back out through the internal tube. Repeat this process until the liquid comes out clear.
- Do the same thing with fresh water to rinse it out.
Rinse your dildo thoroughly. Wipe it dry or allow it to dry before storing it in a dry, clean place out of direct sunlight. Following these steps will keep your dildo in excellent conditions, so you can enjoy it for years to come!
