How To Use a Couple’s Vibrator
Posted on 26/05/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Claire
Have you been dreaming of using a couple's vibrator? In this article, the LOVE Team explains how to discover new sensations together.
Couple’s vibrators offer a totally interactive experience, as they stimulate the erogenous zones of both partners at the same time. These sex toys for couples will enhance your intimate bond and give you quick access to unparalleled pleasure. If you use your vibrator in just the right way, you’ll be more likely to experience a simultaneous orgasm.
In this how-to guide, the LOVE Team will answer all your questions and show you how to get the most out of your couple’s vibrator.
1. Choose the perfect couple’s vibrator
Not all couple’s vibrators have the same functionalities. Most have been designed to be inserted into the vagina during penetration: with an internal shaft
stimulates the G spot
, whilst the external length vibrates against the clitoris. Some models are more supple to accompany your movements, whilst others are rigid to provide more intense pressure.
Here are our key criteria for you to consider:
- How supple your toy is: a flexible model will adapt more efficiently to different body types and pelvic movements.
- How powerful the vibrations are: various options have multiple levels of intensity and even different functions (throbbing, waves etc.).
- How noisy it is: a discrete motor won’t distract from the moment at hand.
- How it’s controlled: a toy that can be controlled via remote or an app is a great option if you want to play around with power and control dynamics.
- What material it’s made from: opt for a soft, medical grade silicone vibrator that’s non-porous and body safe.
A couple’s vibrator needs to be comfortable for the wearing partner, and not get in the way of penetration. Don’t hesitate to consult the product pages and get information on product size before you buy it: insertable length, width, curvature… these details make all the difference between a pleasant and an uncomfortable experience.
Our favourite couple’s vibrators
2. Clean your vibrator before using it for the first time
Before using your new sex toy for the first time, clean it according to the instructions in the user’s manual. You can also use a special sex toy cleane. Be careful never to immerse your toy in water, as this could permanently damage the electronic components.
3. Explore the different modes
4. Use lube
Using a lubricant will make inserting the vibrator easier and your experience more pleasurable.
If your sex toy is made of silicone, always use a water-based lubricant, as silicone-based formulas may damage silicone toys.
5. Insert the vibrator
6. Enjoy your vibrator
As well as changing the rhythm, you can also try different positions to increase your pleasure and discover new sensations depending on the angle you choose and the depth of penetration.
7. Clean your vibrator after every session
Clean your vibrator thoroughly after every use. Thorough cleaning ensures perfect hygiene and long-lasting pleasure. Clean your vibrator in the same way you did in step one.
When dry, store your toy in a box or cloth bag in a dry, clean and discreet place.