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How To Use a Couple’s Vibrator

How To Use a Couple’s Vibrator

Posted on 26/05/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Claire

Couple’s vibrator

Have you been dreaming of using a couple's vibrator? In this article, the LOVE Team explains how to discover new sensations together.

Couple’s vibrators offer a totally interactive experience, as they stimulate the erogenous zones of both partners at the same time. These sex toys for couples will enhance your intimate bond and give you quick access to unparalleled pleasure. If you use your vibrator in just the right way, you’ll be more likely to experience a simultaneous orgasm.

In this how-to guide, the LOVE Team will answer all your questions and show you how to get the most out of your couple’s vibrator.

1. Clean your vibrator before using it for the first time

Before using your new sex toy for the first time, clean it according to the instructions in the user’s manual. You can also use a special sex toy cleaner. Be careful never to immerse your toy in water, as this could permanently damage the electronic components.

Dry your vibrator with a clean cloth.

2. Explore the different modes

Before your first session, you and your partner should learn how your new toy works by playing with the vibrations, speeds, settings, etc. Get to know the different modes so that you can choose the one you want to use together.
If you have a remote control, try it out too. This will give you better control over the vibrations when you make love. When the time comes, all you have to do is concentrate on your pleasure and the experience will be intensely satisfying.

3. Use lube

Lubes

Using a lubricant will make inserting the vibrator easier and your experience more pleasurable.


If your sex toy is made of silicone, always use a water-based lubricant, as silicone-based formulas may damage silicone toys.

4. Insert the vibrator

The shaft of the couple's vibrator should be inserted into the vagina: this allows the G-spot and clitoris to be stimulated at the same time, leaving room for the man to penetrate his partner in turn.
Apply a generous amount of lube to your private parts. Gently insert the shaft into your partner's vagina. Check that it is properly inserted and then penetrate your partner in turn.

5. Enjoy your vibrator

Now you're ready to enjoy the vibrations from your vibrator. You can adjust the settings either directly or using the remote control. Change the rhythms and take turns controlling the vibrations for even more excitement.

As well as changing the rhythm, you can also try different positions to increase your pleasure and discover new sensations depending on the angle you choose and the depth of penetration.

6. Clean your vibrator after every session

Toy cleaner
Clean your vibrator thoroughly after every use. Thorough cleaning ensures perfect hygiene and long-lasting pleasure. Clean your vibrator in the same way you did in step one.


When dry, store your toy in a box or cloth bag in a dry, clean and discreet place.

We hope we've answered all your questions! If you would like more advice, please feel free to contact us. The LOVE Team is here to guide you and help you discover electrifying new pleasures.
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Sex Toys for Couples and Shared Pleasure

"When it comes to pleasure, anything goes – as long as you’re in it together!"

Having been in a relationship since 2015, Claire Schmidt has explored every side of partner play and knows exactly how to keep that all-important spark alive. Passionate about sexual intimacy and the world of sex toys, she shares practical tips to help couples reignite their desire and discover new sensations as one. From sensual exploration to playful kinks, Claire loves to chat about all the issues that a couple may face in the sheets—with no taboos, just pleasure.

Favourite toy: A remote-controlled love egg – for teasing, tempting, and turning up the heat together.