How to Use a Clitoral Suction Vibrator

The sensations procured from this kind of toy can be gentle, targeted or more intense depending on the model and the level you choose. The most important thing is not to rush, find the right position and listen to your body.

A clitoral suction vibrator is a sex toy that’s designed to stimulate the clitoris . Place the tip around your clitoris, or just above, and enjoy targeted air pulses.

Contrary to what the name suggests, this toy doesn’t perform really harsh sucking motions. It provides pleasure via a gentle sucking motion, or pressure, around the clitoris.

The difference between this and a classic vibrator is all in the type of stimulation you get. Compared to the classic toy that works using direct vibrations, the clit-sucking vibrators envelop the area. For some this may feel more gentle, for others more intense. In any case, we recommend to always start out soft.

Make sure you choose the right model for your body. A good clit-sucking vibrator needs to be easy to use, comfortable to hold, and be able to provide a gradual increase in stimulation.

If you’re just starting out, then keep these things in mind:

• Does the toy have different intensity levels?
• Is the tip soft and comfortable?
• Is it made from a quality material, like silicone?
• Is it shaped to make it easy to hold?
• Is it easy to clean?

The tip of the toy is more important than you may think. It should fit easily around the clitoris without pinching or putting too much pressure on the area. Some models are designed for precision, others for a more enveloping feeling. Making the right choice depends on each individual’s body and preferences when it comes to stimulation.

Using a clitoral sucking vibrator is fairly intuitive, nevertheless we’ve put together a few top tips to make sure you get the most out of your toy, especially if you’re a beginner.

Before you get started, make sure the toy is fully charged. This way you can avoid an unexpected, unsatisfying finish to the fun.

Even if the toy is brand spanking new, make sure to clean its tip with lukewarm water and a specially formulated sex toy cleaner, or following the manufacturer’s instructions. Take a couple of seconds also to suss out the buttons, the different functionalities and the intensity levels.

Get into a comfy position in a place you know you won’t be bothered. It’s always best to take your time with a clit-sucking vibrator.

The more relaxed you are, the better the experience will be. Take a few minutes (or more if you need) to build arousal instead of placing the toy straight onto your clitoris.

A small amount of water-based lube helps to make contact gentler and more pleasant. This isn’t a must, but it’s a great option if the area is especially sensitive, or if the tip of the toy is clinging a little too much to your skin.

Avoid silicone-based lubricants if your sex toy is made of silicone, unless otherwise specified by the manufacturer.

Position the tip around, or just above your clitoris, no need to press down too hard. The air waves and pulses are going to do all the work, so there’s no need to squash the toy right up against your skin.

If the stimulation doesn’t feel great, then adjust your position ever so slightly. Sometimes all you need is a few millimetres difference to find the right angle.

Even if you’re a seasoned pro when it comes to sex toys, we recommend always starting off soft. The air pulsations may catch you off guard, as they stimulate the clitoris with extreme precision.

After that, feel free to try out other rhythms and intensity levels, always remembering that you can come back to something more gentle if needed.

Listen to your body when using your clitoral sucking vibrator. You can move the toy around, change the angle, take a little break or stimulate around the clitoris if things become too intense.

Keep in mind that:

• You don’t need to press down hard
• The highest intensity level might not be the best one for you
• Even a slight change in position can make a massive difference
• If it becomes uncomfortable, slow down or stop completely

The aim isn’t to ‘stick with it’, but to find what makes you feel good.

Dry your toy using a clean towel, then leave it to fully dry before storing it away. Once done, place it in a pouch or a clean space, protected from dust, heat and humidity.

Yes, the clit-sucking vibrator fits perfectly into a shared sex life. You can use it during foreplay, whilst touching each other, or use it during penetration if the position allows for it.

Let your partner hold the sex toy if you’d like, but remember that you can guide their hand, adjust the angle or take over again at any time. As stimulation with this toy is extremely precise, communication is key. Tell your partner what feels good, or not so good, when to slow down or adjust the intensity.

The aim isn’t to perform, but to explore pleasure together, with curiosity and gentleness.

The clitoral sucking vibrator is super easy to use, but there are a few things you should do in order to avoid any discomfort.

Avoid using it on irritated, sore or sensitive skin. The clitoris is a sensitive area: if you feel any discomfort, stop immediately and come back to it later.

Don’t press the toy too hard into your skin. Too much pressure will make sensations uncomfortable. It’s best to position the tip as you like, and let the air wave pulsations do the rest.

The main mistakes to avoid are:

• Starting directly with the most intense level
• Continuing even if it becomes uncomfortable
• Using a lube that isn’t compatible with your toy
• Submerging a toy that isn’t waterproof

If in doubt, the manufacturer’s instructions remain the best guide, particularly regarding watertightness, cleaning and compatibility with lubricants.

Clitoral suction vibrators are designed to be used gently: start small, adjust the position according to your sensations and take the time to discover what makes you feel good. Clean it properly, don’t put too much pressure on yourself, and this toy will quickly become your best friend when it comes to clit stimulation.