How to use a vibrator

The LOVE Team has written this how-to guide to give you tips on how to use and clean your vibrator so you can enjoy your new toy for years to come!

Here are some ideas for creating the perfect atmosphere for your solo play session:

• Find a comfortable position: Make yourself comfortable and relax. This will help you enjoy the experience. Try different positions to find the one that suits you best: on your back, on your stomach, in the bath, on all fours, sitting on the floor or on a sofa, etc.
• Light candles and play relaxing music: Dimming the lights and putting on soma calming music will help you relax and focus on the experience..
• Make sure you're comfortable: Clothes on or off? Go with what makes you feel the best.
• Focus on your breathing: Controlling your breathing can help you relax. Take a few minutes to breathe deeply before you start.
• Relax and let go: Enjoying the experience means being completely at ease. Focus on your pleasure and forget about everything else!

Remember to make sure that your vibrator is ready for action before using it. Here’s a short checklist for help:

Once you’ve set the mood and prepared your vibrator, you’ll be ready for action!

Depending on the model you choose, you can use your vibrator to enjoy external or internal stimulation.

• Start with the weakest mode: If this is the first time you’ve used a vibrator, it’s important to start slowly. You can then increase the power at your own rhythm, according to what makes you feel good.
• Explore your external erogenous zones: You can use your vibrator to stimulate your clit, labia and vulva. Gently run your vibrator over these areas to find out which one gives you the most pleasure.
• Wear panties for protection: If you have a sensitive clitoris, wearing panties will help you feel more comfortable.
• Respect your limits: Explore your limits and don't go beyond them. There's no need to use a mode that's too powerful for you, just take your time and enjoy the experience.
• Change your position: Using your vibrator in different positions (lying down, sitting, standing, etc.) will help you discover new sensations.
• Play around with the different features: Most vibrators feature different vibration modes and speeds, thrusting, and rotations. Try out all of the different features to find out what suits you best.: If this is the first time you’ve used a vibrator, it’s important to start slowly. You can then increase the power at your own rhythm, according to what makes you feel good.

Using a vibrator internally can be an intensely pleasurable experience, but it is important to take your time. Here are some tips:

• Start slowly: Start by stimulating your outer erogenous zones to moisten your vagina. This will make penetration easier.
• Use lube: Apply a generous amount of personal lubricant to the insertable shaft of your vibrator. This will make inserting the shaft much easier and more comfortable.
• Focus on your pleasure: Enjoy the waves of pleasure washing over you as you explore your most sensitive areas. Listen to your body!
• Rock back and forth: This will stimulate different areas of your vagina and help spread the pleasure.
• Follow your own rhythm: Choose the right mode and speed for you. You don’t have to try out the most powerful settings right away.
• Find out what works for you: Slowly but surely, you’ll discover what feels best as you move your vibrator back and forth inside of you.

Using a vibrator during foreplay or sex can be a real turn-on for both partners. Here are some tips:

• Make sure that your partner is on board: Ask for the go-ahead from your partner before whipping out your new toy in bed. Consent is key.
• Let your partner play around with the different features: It is important that your partner knows exactly how your vibrator works (modes, speeds, etc.) before using it on you.
• Enhance your foreplay: Ask your partner to use the vibrator to stimulate your external erogenous zones during your foreplay session for even more pleasure.
• Use the vibrator during penetrative sex: Stimulate your other sensitive areas during penetrative sex for double the fun.
• Try different positions: Once you and your partner have mastered the use of the vibrator, you can experiment with different positions to find the one that works best.
• Try a couple's vibrator: Specially designed to stimulate the erogenous zones of both partners during penetration, a couple’s vibrator is the ultimate bedroom accessory!

We hope this how-to guide has helped you better understand how to use your vibrator to explore new sensations. At LOVE AND VIBES, we believe that everyone should experience sexual pleasure and we’re proud to offer a wide range of vibrators to suit your needs.

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact the LOVE Team. We’re here to help answer all your questions.

Have fun!