LOVE Positions: The Padlock — Locking In on Pleasure

Back once again with our classic LOVE Positions series, the LOVE Team is here to teach you all about this accessible yet efficient position to spice things up in the bedroom.

Not all positions are designed to dazzle. Some are great simply at encouraging you to slow down, get nice and close, and savour the moment. The padlock is the perfect example of this. It’s simple, comfortable and perfect if you want to share an intimate moment with your partner.

First things first, the partner being penetrated needs to sit on a solid, stable surface, such as the edge of a bed, chair, or sofa.

The penetrating partner stands facing them, whilst the sitting partner wraps their legs around the hips of the other, essentially locking them in. This way the two partners are extremely close, chest to chest, making it perfect for steamy eye contact, sensual embraces and naughty touching.

This position allows for fluid, natural pelvic movements. The penetrating partner can control movement and rhythm, whilst the sitting partner can use their legs to guide and accompany each movement.

This is a particularly pleasant position for anyone who likes to take their time during sex and focus on physical connection.

It’s no surprise that this position is a firm favourite for plenty of couples.

This is because it creates proximity between partners. With your bodies so close, you’ll be able to enjoy a myriad of other types of play, like kissing , caressing and whispering sweet nothing's.

It also encourages a slower, more sensual rhythm. Both partners can influence movements, making the experience incredibly immersive.

What’s more, it’s a relatively comfortable position, as it doesn’t require you to be overly flexible or overly exert yourself either. This makes it enjoyable for all types of couples, regardless of experience level.

Finally, in this position your hands are free to roam, giving you the chance to play around with other forms of stimulation.

If you’re looking to incorporate sex toys into play, then the padlock is the perfect choice. Since you and your partner are so close, you can easily slip a toy into the mix.

A decent lube will always your best friend. It improves the fluidity of movements by reducing friction, instantly transforming your experience into a more pleasant one.

Once you’ve mastered the classic padlock position, why not make a few tweaks to boost sensations?

For example, simply adjusting the angle of your pelvis ever so slightly can change depth and area of stimulation.

Some couples like to play around with rhythm: slowing things down, taking short pauses, speeding things back up again. This will help to build up excitement gradually.

Finally, nothing is stopping you from trying this position in different places. On the sofa, on a chair, or even against a wall if you’re feeling extra sporty. The great thing about its simplicity is how adaptable it is.

The padlock position proves to us that you don’t have to be a world-class acrobat to have intense, mind-blowing sex. Thanks to its proximity and simplicity, you’ll be sure to enjoy an intimate moment of sensuality and shared pleasure with your partner. This is a great position for anyone who enjoys carnal moments filled with deep connection.