How to Use a Double-Ended Dildo

Double-ended dildo

A double-ended dildo is a versatile toy that can be used for double penetration during solo play or simultaneous penetration during partner play. The user-friendly design and two realistic dildo ends will treat you to uncomparable new sensations.

In this how-to guide, the LOVE Team will give you all the information you need to use a double dong, so that you can experiment with new kinds of pleasure.

1. Get your dildo ready

  • Before you get started, clean your dildo thoroughly with warm water and mild soap. Leave it to dry completely.
  • You can bend or twist the dildo a bit to make the centre more flexible and the ends firmer.
  • If you are using your double-ended dildo with a partner, remember to put a condom over either end (to prevent any risk of sexually transmitted diseases or unwanted pregnancy).
  • Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to both ends of the dildo. If you are using your double dildo for anal sex, lubricate your anus as well to make it easier to insert the dildo and reduce any discomfort.
  • Don't forget that foreplay will make you more aroused, making it easier to insert the dildo. Touch yourself and explore your body: you'll then be able to take full advantage of the extreme pleasures your double dildo will give you.

2. Use your double-ended dildo for solo play

Here are some tips on how to use your double dildo during your solo sessions.
double penetration

  • Find the right position: We recommend lying on your back with your legs apart. Insert the thicker end of the dildo into your vagina and fold the other half up: you can use it as a handle when you thrust back and forth.
  • Try out double penetration: Fold the double dildo into a U-shape and squat over it with both ends pointing upwards. After applying some lube, gently insert the thicker end into your vagina and the thinner end into your anus.
  • Take your time: Thrust your dildo back and forth, holding the dildo firmly in one hand. Try different rhythms and depths until you find what you like best.

3. Use your double-ended dildo with your partner

Your double dildo can also be used for simultaneous penetration with a partner. In this case, you'll need to find the best position for both of you. Here are two of the LOVE Team’s favourite positions:
double-ended dildo with a partner

  • Doggy style: On all fours, back to back with your partner, insert one end of the dildo into the orifice of your choice (vagina or anus). Then step back so you're both closer to the end of the dildo and thrust back and forth at your own pace.
  • The crab position: Sit facing each other with your hands and feet on the floor. Insert the dildo into your orifices at the same time. Move gently towards each other to take advantage of the full length of the dildo.
Remember to use enough lubricant to avoid discomfort or pain. Communication is the key to success: if you're creative and get on well together, you'll definitely enjoy an extraordinary sexual experience.

4. Clean your double dildo

Clean your double-ended dildo after every use to prevent infections and prolong the life of your sex toy.
wash your dildo
Wash your double dildo with soap and hot water to remove any traces of lubricant or bodily fluids. You can also use a special sex toy cleaner.


If your double-ended dildo is made of silicone, you can sterilise it by leaving it in boiling water for a few minutes. This is especially important if you’re using your dildo for anal penetration. If the dildo is made of a porous material (e.g. TPR), you won’t be able to sterilise it (so you should use a condom, as we’ve noted).

Leave the double dildo to air dry to prevent the growth of bacteria and mould. Store it in a clean, dry place, taking care not to leave it in a bended position so that it retains its original shape.
If you take proper care of your toy, you’ll enjoy it for a long time to come, safely and hygienically.
We hope this how-to guide will help you discover new sexual pleasures. Whether you’re alone or with a partner, you’ll be able to enjoy your dildo to explore new kinds of pleasure and sensuality.
The LOVE Team is here to guide you in your exploration of sexuality and to answer any questions you may have! Feel free to contact us any time you’d like.