How to use a ball gag

Looking to spice up your sex life? Bored with your regular routine and want to explore the world of BDSM? A ball gag may just be the perfect bondage toy for you. In this article, the LOVE Team explains how to use a gag ball safely, so you can enjoy a new and thrilling experience!

A gag ball is a BDSM toy. It features a ball (made of silicone or rubber) that is inserted into the mouth of the person being dominated and adjustable leather straps. When wearing a ball gag, your partner won’t be able to utter a single word. They’ll only be able to moan and make non-verbal noises. Your session is about to get very exciting…

1. Set your limits

It is essential that you and your partner define the rules of your session before it begins: set a time limit (15 minutes will be more than enough to start with) and agree on the sexual acts that will be performed. Once your partner is gagged, they will no longer be able to express themself verbally. You’ll need to define a non-verbal signal (hand or head gesture) that your partner can use to communicate that they’d like to stop the session immediately.

2. Try the gag on before the session

To make sure that your session is as enjoyable and comfortable as possible, have your partner try on the gag ball beforehand and check that the straps are properly tightened.

LOVE Team Tip

You’ll enjoy your session much more if you play it safe throughout your session.

Do not use a ball gag if you have a cold. A cold will prevent you from breathing through your nose, so your mouth should be completely clear.
Never leave a person with a ball gag tied up and alone. You need to stay by their side at all times in case they have trouble breathing.

3. Put the gag on

Your partner should be completely relaxed.
Slide the ball gag into their mouth between their teeth. Don't push it in too far so as not to obstruct your partner's breathing.
Tie the straps behind your partner's head to hold the ball gag in place.
Ask your partner to make the non-verbal signal you've agreed upon to make sure you can clearly identify it.

4. Enjoy your ball gag

Be creative and invent some erotic games to really heat things up. Here are a few examples:

Experiment with role-play and create some sexy scenarios to bring your session to the next level.
Use other BDSM accessories like masks, handcuffs, floggers, riding crops or nipple clamps. The choice is endless!
Play with sex toys! Use a vibrator, dildo, or anal plug on your partner while they’re wearing the ball gag and listen to their moans of pleasure.

5. Clean your ball gag

It's very important to keep your BDSM toys in tip-top condition for your hygiene and to keep them for years to come. Here's how to care for your gag:

Clean your gag ball with soap and water, making sure to remove all traces of saliva.
You can sterilise the silicone ball (without the straps!) in boiling water for 5 to 10 minutes.
Wipe your gag ball dry or let it air dry.

We hope you've found this step-by-step guide to using a ball gag useful as you explore new dimensions of pleasure. Remember to always communicate with your partner throughout the session and make sure they consent. Enjoy yourselves and feel free to contact the LOVE Team if you have any other questions!