How to Use a Cock Sleeve

Posted on 27/01/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Eric

Looking to use a cock sleeve to up your sexual game? Although this sex toy for men may seem intimidating at first, rest assured – all you need is a little guidance!

Cock sleeves can be a great option for those who want to improve their sexual performance, make sex last longer or simply discover new sensations. In this how-to guide, we will explain how to use a cock sleeve safely and comfortably. So if you're ready to learn more about cock sleeves, let's get started!

1. Choose the perfect cock sleeve

The cock sleeve is a versatile accessory that has the potential to completely transform your sexual encounters, for both the wearer and their partner. Whether you’re looking to make your erection last longer, increase your penis size, reduce sensitivity to delay ejaculation, or you’d simply like to explore new sensations, it’s essential you choose the right model that’s adapted to your needs and your body shape.

Here are the most important factors to take into account when choosing your cock sleeve:

Material: supple silicone, TPE, latex… each material feels different to the touch. Opt for soft, hypoallergenic, easy to clean materials.
Shape and texture: some sleeves are veined, with internal textures, some have external textures to stimulate the vaginal or anal walls, whilst others are smoother for a more realistic feel.
Length and diameter: you have the option between thinner models that fit snugly over the penis, or wider ones that offer some serious girth gain. It’s up to you to decide whether you’d prefer a more discreet or obvious finish.
Integrated ball loop: some cock sleeves possess an integrated ball loop that fits around your testicles, keeping your accessory properly in place. This also helps reinforce your erection.
Type of penetration wanted: not all cock sleeves are adapted for anal use or compatible with condoms. Make sure to check what your accessory is compatible with depending on what you’re wanting to use it for

One last piece of advice: start with a simple, comfortable and well-rated option, then explore more complex models as and when your needs evolve. It’s always better to pick the right fitting option over one that may be too ambitious, therefore interrupting pleasure.

If you want more guidance, check out our full guide on how to choose the right cock sleeve , with in depth advice on how to find the perfect one for you.

Our favourite cock sleeves

Realistic veiny penis-enhancing sleeve

In stock

Best Seller

^£26^.99

Intensify vibrating penis sleeve 9 modes

In stock

Best Seller

^£64^.99

^£54^.99

Extra-long penis extension

In stock

Best Seller

^£21^.99

Clitoris-stimulating vibrating double-penis sleeve

In stock

^£49^.99

SEE ALL OF OUR COCK SLEEVES

2. Apply some lubricant to your sleeve and penis

Start by applying some lubricant to your cock sleeve and penis for two reasons: to make the sleeve easier to put on and to increase your comfort.

Without lubricant, it may be difficult to slide the sleeve over your penis. The lube makes the surface of the sleeve smoother and easier to handle. It also reduces rubbing and chafing during use, which can be incredibly important if you use the sleeve for long periods or have sensitive skin.

Use a water-based lube, which will be compatible with most of the materials used in cock sleeves. Avoid silicone-based lubricants in particular, as they can damage silicone sleeves. Make sure you apply the lube to the entire surface of the sleeve and your penis for maximum comfort and pleasure.

3. Prepare your member

Make sure that your penis is erect or semi-erect before you put the sleeve on. This is because the sleeve is designed to be used on an erect penis as it helps to maintain more pressure on the penis. If your penis is not erect, it will be difficult to keep the sleeve in place, which will prevent you from fully enjoying the sleeve.

You can use stimulation techniques or Kegel exercises to maintain or increase your erection before gliding on the sleeve. If you have difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection, your partner can help by providing manual or oral stimulation.

Please note

Please note that a cock sleeve should not be used as a substitute for a natural erection. If you have recurrent erectile problems, we recommend that you see a doctor who can prescribe appropriate treatment.

4. Put on the sleeve

To put the sleeve on, follow these steps:

Grasp the sleeve and make sure that the opening is facing you.
Put the sleeve on like a condom by sliding it along your penis until it is securely in place.
If the sleeve has a ball loop, wrap it around your testicles to hold the sleeve in place.
If the sleeve has a vibrating bullet, press the button to start the vibrations. Some sleeves have an on/off button and speed control so that you can adjust the vibrations to your liking.
If you plan on using your sleeve to penetrate your partner, apply some lube to the outside of the sleeve as well.

5. Penetrate your partner

Once your sleeve is on, you are ready to penetrate your partner. It is important to take your time and communicate throughout your session.

Start with some gentle thrusting movements to get used to the feel of the sleeve and to make sure that your partner is safe. You can gradually increase the strength and speed of your thrusting according to your partner's preferences and your own comfort level.

Communicate with your partner during sex so that both of you share the pleasure. Listen to what your partner wants and ask if he or she needs more or less stimulation. Listen carefully and adjust your penetration style accordingly.

By following these tips, you’ll get the most out of your sleeve and ensure that your partner is enjoying themself as well. Remember to take your time to experience new sensations and find out what works best for both of you.

6. Remove your sleeve

At the end of your session, it is important to remove your sleeve correctly to prevent any discomfort. Here's how to do it:

Make sure your penis is still erect or semi-erect to make it easier and less painful to remove the sleeve.
Remove the ball loop.
Grasp the sleeve and slide it down your penis until it is off. If the sleeve is made of silicone, you may need to pull a little harder.

Remove the sleeve immediately after using it to prevent infection or irritation. If you’ve been wearing the sleeve for a long time, remove it every two hours to allow your penis to breathe and to ensure that the sleeve is not too tight or too loose.

7. Clean your sleeve

It is important that you clean your sleeve after each use:

Rinse it with warm waterto remove any traces of lubricant or bodily fluids.
Applymild soapto the sleeve and rub gently to clean it thoroughly. You can use a soft cloth, but do not use a brush or sharp object that could damage the sleeve.
Rinse the sleeve with warm water. Be sure to remove all traces of soap to avoid the risk of irritation or allergy.
Dry the sleeve thoroughly with a clean towel or soft cloth and store it in a suitable area.

Taking care to clean your sleeve properly after every session will keep it in excellent condition for years to come.

Tip from the LOVE Team

Do not use your sleeve as a condom, as it will not protect you against unwanted pregnancy and STIs.

Eric

LGBTQ+ Expert and Advocate for Sexual and Romantic Diversity

"Sexuality isn’t a box—it’s a spectrum."

A passionate advocate for LGBTQ+ representation, Eric Berger brings an inclusive, sex-positive approach to his writing. Proudly gay, he shares his experiences and expertise on topics ranging from queer relationships and coming out to pleasure and the unique challenges faced by sexual minorities. With an authentic and welcoming tone, he tackles stereotypes and encourages open, judgement-free conversations about fluid sexuality and self-discovery.

Favourite toy: A vibrating butt plug – perfect for exploring new sensations at my own rhythm.