How to use a cock ring

If you're using a cockring for the first time, this guide is for you. From putting on your cock ring to cleaning it, you'll learn everything you need to know about using your new toy.

First of all, it is important to choose a ring that is perfectly suited to your desires and body. Once you've chosen the right cock ring for you, you'll be ready to explore all the possibilities this sex toy for men has to offer!

1. Shave your pubic area

Shaving your pubic area before using a cockring is important for two reasons. First, pubic hair will not get caught in the cock ring (which can be quite uncomfortable). Second, giving your partner a clear view of your penis will only increase their excitement!

For your comfort and safety, we recommend using an electric razor rather than a manual one.

2. Use the right lubricant

Using a personal lubricant will improve the feel of the cock ring and increase your comfort: by reducing friction, the lube will allow the cock ring to slide more easily over your penis.

It is important to use a lubricant that is suitable for the material of your cock ring. For example, never use a silicone-based lubricant with a silicone cockring: it will damage your sex toy. Choose a water-based lubricant. If you're using a metal cock ring, you can use any lubricant you like (just make sure it doesn't irritate your skin or your partner's). Once you have chosen the right lube, apply a generous amount to the inside of the ring and to your penis.

3. Put on the cock ring

If you’re a beginner, you should always put the ring around your penis when it is at rest or during a semi-erection. The ring should fit snugly but not too tightly. If it is too tight, remove it immediately and change to a larger cock ring. The ring should act as a sort of tourniquet around your penis to block blood flow and strengthen your erection.

To increase your comfort and performance, you can wear a stretchy cock ring around your testicles and penis at the same time: insert your penis first, then stretch the ring over your scrotum and insert your testicles through the ring one at a time.

4. Remove your the cock ring

It is important to remove your cock ring immediately after sex. We recommend that you wear it no longer than 20 to 30 minutes. A little lubricant will make it easier to remove the ring. If you are using a ring with a stretchy material, you can remove it by simply stretching the material and pulling it out. The same goes for a leather cockring: just open the snaps or remove it. Please note that the penis must be at rest to remove metal or plastic rings. If you are wearing your ring around your testicles, first remove the penis, then the first testicle and finally the second.

Love Team Tip

Using a too-tight cock ring or wearing a ring for too long may cause you pain, numbness (tingling), swelling or discolouration of the penis. If you think you have been injured by wearing your cock ring, go to an emergency room immediately.

5. Take care of your cock ring

It is important to clean your cock ring before and after each use. Use water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner. You can also sterilise silicone and metal cock rings by immersing them in boiling water for 5 minutes. Allow your cock ring to dry completely before storing it in a clean, dry place away from prying eyes.

We hope this guide has helped you understand how to use a cock ring to enhance your and your partner’s pleasure. If you have any further questions or concerns, please feel free to contact us: the LOVE AND VIBES team will be happy to assist you.

We hope you have a great time and enjoy your cock ring!