How to enjoy a safe first fisting session

Fisting's been given a rather brutal image, but that's far from the real deal. For those bold couples (whether you're straight, gay, or anywhere in between) taking the plunge, it's all about tenderness, generosity, and mutual confidence. Your partner's hand? It’s not about force; it's about the careful touch and heightened attention to every little sensation. Picture this: a delicate caress, whether venturing vaginally or rectally.

The bottom line? Trying out fisting can be a game-changer. It not only introduces you to pleasures you might've never imagined but also tightens the bond between partners. So, are you both ready to trust and explore?

So, what's the draw for you? How do you imagine the session playing out? Are you thinking about taking the lead or following the rhythm? Whether you're considering a bit of vaginal or anal exploration, it's all up for discussion. And don't shy away from setting out the boundaries – both yours and theirs. The goal is to have a candid convo, ensuring both of you are crystal clear on any reservations and preferences. Safety and understanding first, fun and exploration next!

Alright, before diving into the main event, let's chat prep. Your hands are the stars of the show here, so they need a bit of pampering. First off, give those nails a trim – you wouldn't want any unintentional scratches, would you? While you're at it, ditch the bling (we're talking rings, watches, and those snazzy bracelets). A thorough scrub with some antibacterial soap should do the trick for your hands and wrists. And for the grand finale, slide on a latex glove. Not only does this keep things hygienic, but it also ensures you're not passing on or picking up any unwanted germs. Make sure that glove goes beyond your hand, covering part of your forearm too. Safety first!

You know what they say – the more aroused the partner, the more receptive they'll be to a spot of exploration. So, put in some effort to light those fireworks and ignite their senses. As things heat up, you'll notice them loosening up – muscles relaxing and tension melting away. All of which will pave the way for a smoother and much more pleasurable fisting session. Give it a go, and thank us later!

Imagine forming your fingers into a bit of a duck head – yep, a cone shape – it'll be your golden ticket to ease in without a hitch. Start with just a digit, maybe then two, allowing your partner to warm up to the feeling. Are they vibing with the sensations? Keen on continuing? The golden rule: no pressure. If there's even a hint of hesitation, or they fancy calling it a day, respect their pace.

The grand entrance of your entire hand? That's the pinnacle, and a tad delicate, if we're honest. Always lead with gentleness and keep an eagle eye out for any signs of discomfort on their part. Remember, it’s all about mutual pleasure, not pain. So, if they seem even slightly off-kilter, be ready to hit the brakes.

Fisting? It’s meant to be a thrilling escapade, ensuring both of you are having a right jolly time.

Once you're in, it's time to tread softly in the world of your partner's intimacy. No sudden moves, mates! Gently sway your fingers, brush against those ultra-sensitive spots, and give a tender press here and there. These are the moves that'll have your partner floating towards cloud nine.

There's something about that 'fullness' sensation that's utterly delicious in the world of fisting. So, let them revel in your skilled touch, pace yourself, and, most importantly, tune into their feedback. They'll be your compass, guiding you on this voyage of tantalising pleasure and uncharted sensations.

Give your partner a gentle heads up – it's time to draw the curtain on this act. Take it nice and slow, easing out with the same care as you went in. It's all about the tenderness – you wouldn't want to cause any harm. Keep up the chatter, describing what you're doing, and always, always stay tuned into their vibes and feedback.

Our fab LOVE Team suggests having a good ol' chinwag after the act. Let's face it, fisting can tug on the emotional heartstrings. How's your partner holding up? What bits truly hit the mark for both of you? Fancy another round sometime? By swapping notes, you're only setting the stage for an even more smashing experience next time (if there's a next time, that is).

Let's be real: fisting isn't exactly your everyday dalliance. But just like any intimate experience, it's built on the pillars of mutual consent and respect. Savour the journey of getting to know every inch of your partner. Be mindful of every move, play within the lines both of you have drawn, and always shoot for that shared, electrifying pleasure.

The LOVE Team hopes you've felt supported during your introduction to fisting. And hey, any niggling questions left? Shoot them our way! Dive in and have a blast exploring!