How to use an app-controlled vibrator

Doing the long-distance thing but keen to ignite a fiery evening with your partner? The LOVE Team is here to guide you through the thrilling world of app-controlled vibrators for all of your intimate interactions, no matter the distance.

Love knows no bounds, and technology provides unexpected bridges to keep the spark alive, even thousands of miles apart. Welcome to the age of app-controlled vibrators, where distance is merely a minor detail against the backdrop of the intimate bond you share with your partner.

Thanks to these technological marvels, which can be controlled with just a tap on your smartphone app, you and your partner can explore new dimensions of pleasure, without even being in the same room... or time zone!

In this how-to guide, lovingly written by the LOVE Team, we explain how to best use a bluetooth sex toy. Why should you be using an app-controlled vibrator during long-distance sex with a partner? How can you make using a remote sex toy for couples a successful and memorable experience? We’ll give you all the information and tips you need to guide you step-by-step, making you feel like you’re really in the same room together during your next long-distance booty call. Ready for takeoff?

Why play with an app-controlled vibrator?

The digital age has transformed our lives in ways we could hardly have imagined, including how we handle our long-distance relationships. App-controlled vibrators can act as bridges between remote lovers, regardless of the distance between them.

Here’s why incorporating these revolutionary gadgets into your couple's life could be a truly enriching adventure.

  • They allow you to feel closer: App-controlled vibrators allow you to experience moments of intense physical pleasure, as if your partner were right there beside you, because you can control the toy with your smartphone. This virtual closeness can strengthen your intimate bond, allowing you to enjoy uniquely sexy experiences, despite the distance.
  • They’re a never-ending source of fun: Your partner will be able to surprise you by totally controlling your pleasure and the sensations you feel, making each sexy session totally unique. The unpredictability will really spice up your relationship!
  • You can choose from a wide-range of different models: The world of app-controlled vibrators is vast and varied, offering a wide range of possibilities suited to all tastes and desires. Whether you’re looking for a vibrator, a prostate massager, a butt plug, a clit stimulator, or other sex toys, there’s always something new to explore.
  • They allow you to live in the future…today!: Using an app-controlled vibrator is like having a foot in the world of tomorrow. These gadgets represent the pinnacle of technological innovation applied to pleasure, allowing you to experience scenarios that might have seemed like science fiction just a few years ago. 

How to enjoy the perfect first session with an app-controlled vibrator

Using an app-controlled vibrator will enhance your steamy remote sex sessions, no matter the distance. Here are a few tips to get the most out of your experience:

1. Choose the right toy.

The first step? Choose the right app-controlled sex toy. Take a moment with your partner to explore the various options available; it’s an excellent opportunity to share your desires and learn what excites your lover the most. Our buyer’s guide, How to choose an app-controlled vibrator, is here to light your way. Browsing models together will be part of the fun! Finding the right toy with your partner will be an exciting experience for both of you.

2. Read the user’s manual before you begin.

Before getting into the main event, it’s important that you’re well familiar with your toy’s different features and settings. Just imagine an intimate moment interrupted by fumbling with the app or hesitating over features... far from ideal, right? To avoid any missteps, take the time to download and familiarise yourself with the app that controls your app-controlled vibrator, even without the toy at hand. Play around with the different features to understand how to operate the app effectively.

3. Clean your toy before using it for the first time.

Clean your toy

Before you get started with your app-controlled vibrator, make sure that the person who has the toy cleans it thoroughly. It might be tempting to dunk your new playmate into water to make it shine, but that’s not recommended, as dipping the electronic components in water may damage your toy. Instead, opt for a cleaning spray designed specifically for sex toys or a damp cloth lightly soaped. After cleaning, let it air dry. This step will not only make your toy last longer, but also ensures your safety and comfort with every use.

LOVE Team Tip
Don’t forget to charge your toy’s battery for at least two hours before using it for the first time!

4. Take time for (virtual) foreplay.

Before you move on to the main event with your app-controlled vibrator, don't overlook the importance of foreplay, just as you would if you were physically together. Virtual foreplay can take many forms: exchanging some saucy words, sending some suggestive (and consensual) photos, or even a little striptease in front of the camera. These moments of mutual seduction are crucial for building erotic tension and increasing your desire.

5. Have Fun!

The big moment has arrived: let the games begin! Your partner is ready to explore the pleasures that the app-controlled vibrator has to offer, while you take control via your smartphone. Here are some tips to ensure that this experience is as enjoyable and smooth as possible:

  • Lock the doors: Before starting your session, make sure the door is locked. An unexpected interruption by a roommate or family member could quickly dampen the mood.
  • Start slowly: Always begin with the gentlest setting. The intensity can be increased gradually based on your partner's reactions and preferences, allowing for a gradual rise in intensity.
  • Communicate with your partner: The key to a successful session lies in communication. Keep the dialogue open to truly understand what turns on your partner, and adjust the settings accordingly. This interaction will make the experience more intimate and satisfying.
  • Innovate and surprise: Use the "random" setting or switch up the modes to introduce an element of surprise. Unpredictable vibrations can add a thrill of excitement and keep the session fresh and exciting.

By following these tips, you're sure to have a memorable and pleasurable experience. Let your imagination run wild as you explore together the many possibilities offered by your app-controlled vibrator.

6. Clean your toy after your session.

After your pleasure session is over, don’t forget to clean your toy. Always follow the instructions in the user’s manual to avoid damaging the sensitive electronic components. Use the recommended cleaning products or a soft cloth lightly dampened with mild soap, then let the toy air dry completely before storing it in a clean, dry area.

You are now ready to enjoy an incredible session with your app-controlled vibrator. The key is to have fun, communicate, and enjoy every moment spent together, even virtually.

The LOVE Team is here to help you on this wonderful journey. Feel free to contact us for any questions, advice, or simply to share your experience.